07 Mar 2021, 12:51 am
About your original question: I think you probably don't need to worry about it too much. I think you'll find with time that the question of "whether autism should or should not be cured/prevented" doesn't really matter, because things are the way they already are regardless, and it's not the end of the world, because it only prevents you from having the life you were expected and prescribed to have, not necessarily a life that you can enjoy and appreciate. And in fact that life that you can't have would quite likely not be an enjoyable one no matter what. That's how I've come to feel about it anyway. I don't believe god exists, but I guess he still works in mysterious ways anyway... 
I would also like to add that you sound very thoughtful and considerate overall. If you've been accused of heartlessness, then I think it must have been because of some misunderstanding.
