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30 Oct 2020, 4:32 pm

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There is a difference between the two. Madonna did what she was told and the record producers "Owned" her and promoted her sex appeal to sell records. Cyndi was happier to do her own thing and let her records sell by themselves. She did once try to go down the road that Madonna had done but Cyndi much preferred doing her own thing so she quit the contract so she could be free to explore her own music that she and the various people she was with wrote. Most of her work was hers, but she could turn to sing just about anything, which was unusual to have someone who can do this.


No, there have not been many artists, female or not, who are capable of that in my time. A couple of American artistes who come to mind are Aretha Franklin and Dolly Parton. I also have been thoroughly impressed over the years by Danny Elfman's versatility and the band Green Day's ability to continue evolving as most individuals do as they come of age and grow older.

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Cyndi respected others like Madonna and did not see them as competition but as friends. She got on well with Boy George when he went over to the USA as at first he was not welcomed. One of her friends was Debbie Harry (Blondie).


Deborah Harry is another great example of this. I have been glad to see her continue to write and perform, as she seemed to slip between the cracks of 1980's pop music in the States over the years, until more recently. Sadly, most Americans do not allow ourselves to be known for acceptance and polity. I still think what happened to George Michael in LA years ago was absolutely ridiculous.

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The good thing about Cyndi is she stayed with her roots. Fame did not change what she sang. She sang because she wanted to sing and enjoyed it. It is her world.
I would say that Cyndi Lauper is quite likely to be on the spectrum because I can tell her humour is a mask. If you watch clips of her on the chat shows from the past, you maybe able to see what I can see. I notice because I often mask in the same way. A sort of "Acting thick" mask when one really is pretty intelligent behind the mask to pull it off so effectively.


I can dig that. She is unquestionably a graceful, yet rugged, individualist and doesn't project a style which she wants to convey as much as she simply expresses her personality through her fashion and art. I can also personally relate to masking feelings/personality/intellect with humor to sort of diffuse the sharper aspects of my personality as I am either meeting strangers or acting as the newcomer to a social group. It's one of the best ways I've found to gain acceptance from such groups, or at the very least mask those facets of my personality [re: AS] which people sometimes find confusing and/or off-putting.


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30 Oct 2020, 5:18 pm

Don't forget Lauper was the lead singer for the band 'BlueAngel' before going solo.



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30 Oct 2020, 5:24 pm

Yes. And it is brilliant!


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18 May 2021, 8:56 pm

Hadn’t seen this one before ... :)