Sitting in the corner in social gatherings

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I mean when our family or some group gather together, i remain silent. Because i have aspergers, i try not to reveal any signs. I try not to say anything stupid or irrelevant. So i dont talk. Sometimes i get away from them. I dont know if im doing right but i feel less anxious when im alone. What do you think i should do?

I've found that people enjoy just being listened to. If you could just show interest in what they're saying that could actually be a contribution to the conversation. But I understand wanting to get away.

I'm always quiet in group settings. It's mentally impossible to talk in them. One on one conversation is easier. As for groups, only alcohol has ever helped for me personally.

Are there any activities (e.g. board games or card games) that everyone in your family (including you) enjoys? If so, perhaps you might want to ask your parents if such games/activities could be played at family gatherings, so that you can feel more included.

Many autistic people find games and other focused group activities to be an easier form of social interaction than the usual unfocused chitchat that goes on at parties.