I Want My Life To Be Over!

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Hi Kitty. I'm not sure what you mean when you say I said it might not be good? It looks like a legitimate program and similar to ones we have in my state, if you wondered about my opinion.

I only know what I have seen you sharing about your situation on this forum, but based upon that, it sounds like this program could be a good option for you to get support. I saw that in another post you were talking about feeling upset that your sister wanted to hire a caregiver. This may be an option for you to get one funded through the state instead, so that she won't have to take on that expense out-of-pocket.

Good luck with applying, if you decide to apply. It sounds like you are dealing with a lot of frustrating and scary challenges and it would be great to see you to get the support you need. I am sure a lot of people on WP wish that for you, too.

I’m calling them tomorrow, I can’t find the paperwork. I was sooo upset earlier, my stomach was hurting, it felt like a knife in me. I feel like the walls are closing in on me& I can’t breathe.

please hold on, Kitty.

My sister wants to get me a caregiver, she will make everything sooo worse. I’m already breathing too fast. I can’t handle a caregiver that don’t know anything about Aspergers, with everything going on & dealing with a caregiver, I’m going have a mental breakdown.

how can your sister force this on you like that?

Someone posted lies about me on Facebook, I think my sister is the one lying & her friend in my hometown, she helped post it. Now she wants me in an assistant living, she wants to control my life. My sister wasn’t bad when we we younger.

is she older than you?

Yes, 4 years older. She acting like I’m a child, her child, she not acting like a sister. I need alot of help in life, someone is helping me get a social worker. She think I’m totally helpless.

i hope this social worker will be on your side.

I hope so too. Why is it that alot of people think family is the most important thing? Alot of families are not perfect, they don’t get along, they don’t see each other.

yeh, seems many families, once the old folks are gone, they split apart along their mutual fault lines, and go in 4 directions away from one another.

My grandmother is the leader of my family, she my mom’s mom, my mom died almost 9 years ago. I call my grandmother alot, when she goes, they nothing left. I’m not close with my other family members.

Good luck with getting a social worker. It sounds like that could be a big help and source of support. Is it through that program you posted a link to?

Have you spoken with your sister about that program? Programs like that offer an alternative to assisted living and help people get care in their own homes instead.

So, I wonder if your sister would back off from the assisted living idea if she knew you were actively trying to get help and support another way.

Yes that program. I talked to my sister about a social worker, she didn’t believe me, she called me lair before. She lied to me before, she lied to her friend that post lies about me on Facebook, I’m DONE with my sister, she destroyed our relationship over 8 years ago, I don’t feel love for her anymore & I don’t trust her too, she did ALOT of damage to me, she gave me low self esteem when we were living together. I wish I can make my own money, I don’t want to depend on my sister for money or help, but she need to give me my money from the trust fund, I wish I keep in a private bank, so the SSI won’t find out, cuz that money from the trust fund is money from my mom that passed away.