Nades wrote:
kraftiekortie wrote:
That's why I believe "the loss of virginity" is not something like finding the Holy Grail.
It's not, but to an older virgin it might as well be the Holy Grail. This needs to be kept in mind when weighing up risk. We all see the posts here from people tearing themselves to shreds over their virginity and I honestly think if so many people get so worked up about it then what's the point of picking the "correct" type of sex?
It's not a cure for depression, though. I remember seeing posts from people who finally found love (and sex) but quickly realized that they were still depressed.
Once again, it's not normal for people to tear "themselves to shreds over their virginity." They need to get help. It's probably much more difficult for people with untreated/insufficiently treated mental health issues to find love.
Also, a few regular members of this board may not represent the entire demographic (here or elsewhere). The sample is too small and not sufficiently randomized.
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