Dondi wrote:
Hi,
I’m really struggling with making friends. I never know if I’m good with them or not, meaning, I never know that everything is okay unless I’m getting some obvious positive feedback. I need constant reassurance, which isn’t really okay to ask for ask ALL the time.
Does anyone else experience this?
It’s nerve-wracking. I need to find some way to know, otherwise I’m always fearing that I’ve messed up until I see some positive reassurance.
Any suggestions?
I don't really have any suggestions other than trying to learn to cope with it.
I feel that way a lot and it can be really stressful.
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