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Yugoslav1945
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20 Jan 2024, 6:39 am

It turned very ugly...

At this point, I really don't feel like I have done anything good in my life and all of it is just my fault instead of my benefit. Everything I've tried, and everything I've done has backfired on me. I just want to be recognized positively... I am sorry for everything...


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22 Jan 2024, 1:36 pm

Yugoslav1945 wrote:
It turned very ugly...


And what did you learn from it? Possibly that you don't want to engage in such arguments with anyone because no good comes of it, so, maybe next time you feel yourself reacting poorly you'll recognize it and decide to walk away. That's one possible outcome. Maybe you learned something entirely different about yourself and how you handle situations like that - but no experience is ALL BAD with nothing gained from it.

Yugoslav1945 wrote:
At this point, I really don't feel like I have done anything good in my life and all of it is just my fault instead of my benefit. Everything I've tried, and everything I've done has backfired on me. I just want to be recognized positively... I am sorry for everything...


Nope. One bad day/moment does not negate every good thing you've ever done or experienced. Undesirable things happen, but all the good ones still happened, too.


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23 Jan 2024, 11:19 am

goldfish21 wrote:
Yugoslav1945 wrote:
It turned very ugly...


And what did you learn from it? Possibly that you don't want to engage in such arguments with anyone because no good comes of it, so, maybe next time you feel yourself reacting poorly you'll recognize it and decide to walk away. That's one possible outcome. Maybe you learned something entirely different about yourself and how you handle situations like that - but no experience is ALL BAD with nothing gained from it.

Nope. One bad day/moment does not negate every good thing you've ever done or experienced. Undesirable things happen, but all the good ones still happened, too.


I've decided to move on. There is no more possibility in returning to the past. I shall find a neurodivergent girl who isn't trans and maybe then I'll be appreciated for who I am...


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- Josip Broz Tito (Ljubljana, 1948)