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06 Jun 2024, 6:41 pm

Today when I was at the bus stop, an unfamiliar stranger that appeared (to me) homeless, had the nerve to bark "I beat yo ass, b***h ass fa***t" and pointed at me.

He was panhandling on the center divider. He did not approach me. He made a "George Floyd kneeling gesture"

Been on testosterone to transition to male ages 24 to 26, and 36 til now. 41 years old.

It is not my fault that some blacks got murdered by racist cops. Besides I am not even a cop or white. I am Chinese. Furthermore, some lgbt people also got murdered by homophobic.

There is nothing I could have done to prevent police brutality. I don't have the authority or physical strength or other resources such as $$$.



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06 Jun 2024, 7:52 pm

I wouldn't take personally what a possibly mentally ill person on the street shouted at you. He probably shouts that way at everyone, or at random people anyway.



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07 Jun 2024, 1:31 am

bee33 wrote:
I wouldn't take personally what a possibly mentally ill person on the street shouted at you.


yes...dont worry about it...he forgot you so forget him...i know it hurt but he was probably crazy and intoxicated :|


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07 Jun 2024, 7:12 am

Welcome to the world of retail.

And welcome to dealing with...The Public!

Its hard enough to avoid miscommunications and misunderstandings between yourself and customers when the customers are more-or-less "normal" folks. You also have to deal with the unfiltered mass of people off of the streets who include all kinds of nutjobs.

Dont take things personally.



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08 Jun 2024, 2:01 am

Please don't worry SFBUM. He sounds mentally ill to me.

A few years ago I got shouted at by a wide-eyed, babbling stranger for 'being Palestinian'. I'm a pasty white person from England.



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08 Jun 2024, 2:52 am

shortfatbalduglyman wrote:
Today when I was at the bus stop, an unfamiliar stranger that appeared (to me) homeless, had the nerve to bark "I beat yo ass, b***h ass fa***t" and pointed at me.

He was panhandling on the center divider. He did not approach me. He made a "George Floyd kneeling gesture"

Been on testosterone to transition to male ages 24 to 26, and 36 til now. 41 years old.

It is not my fault that some blacks got murdered by racist cops. Besides I am not even a cop or white. I am Chinese. Furthermore, some lgbt people also got murdered by homophobic.

There is nothing I could have done to prevent police brutality. I don't have the authority or physical strength or other resources such as $$$.


That person was probably unhinged, try not to let it get to you and if they seemed homeless there may have been some other issues at play, maybe they were on drugs or maybe just unhinged because becoming homeless would be hard for anyone....but really chances are it was more about their situation than you.


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08 Jun 2024, 3:14 am

naturalplastic wrote:
Welcome to the world of retail.

And welcome to dealing with...The Public!

Its hard enough to avoid miscommunications and misunderstandings between yourself and customers when the customers are more-or-less "normal" folks. You also have to deal with the unfiltered mass of people off of the streets who include all kinds of nutjobs.

Dont take things personally.

I assumed this was at your Home Depot job. But still. The guys was obviously nuts.



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08 Jun 2024, 6:16 am

There is a person in my town that randomly targets strangers, following them and screaming at them. I rapidly change direction whenever I see him coming.



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08 Jun 2024, 9:40 am

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There is a person in my town that randomly targets strangers, following them and screaming at them. I rapidly change direction whenever I see him coming.


A sock + spare change will sort him out.


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08 Jun 2024, 3:23 pm

funeralxempire wrote:
LittleBeach wrote:
There is a person in my town that randomly targets strangers, following them and screaming at them. I rapidly change direction whenever I see him coming.


A sock + spare change will sort him out.


Are people supposed to use that as a weapon to attack a mentally ill person that is screaming at them?


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09 Jun 2024, 4:04 pm

I did when this salesman was practically stalking me and literally following me to my car.


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