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shortfatbalduglyman
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10 May 2025, 6:29 pm

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Sometimes tattle tale tom or any other servant is sitting on the chair that I like to lie down on but it has never occurred to me to sit on his lap

If I say on his lap, he would tattle to human Resources and the cops for Sexual Harassment and bark at me out of control
It may seem like a double standard but there's a big difference between it being consensual & non-consensual. I'd def would not complain if certain women sat on my lap without warning because I like them but I'd complain if most anyone else were to :wink: That said I do NOT think sitting on laps should be appropriate & allowed in most workplaces even if it's consensual :eew:


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How did Janice get "consent", a "consent form"?

I don't u why and how janic gets away with so much and still not made redundant, while my stupid lil boss had the nerve write me up for "listening to music and walking around", when I was pushing carts. How do you push carts while standing still? That is so misleading unreasonable micromanaging inappropriate and unjustified and unfair



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10 May 2025, 9:53 pm

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shortfatbalduglyman wrote:
nick007 wrote:
shortfatbalduglyman wrote:
Sometimes tattle tale tom or any other servant is sitting on the chair that I like to lie down on but it has never occurred to me to sit on his lap

If I say on his lap, he would tattle to human Resources and the cops for Sexual Harassment and bark at me out of control
It may seem like a double standard but there's a big difference between it being consensual & non-consensual. I'd def would not complain if certain women sat on my lap without warning because I like them but I'd complain if most anyone else were to :wink: That said I do NOT think sitting on laps should be appropriate & allowed in most workplaces even if it's consensual :eew:


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How did Janice get "consent", a "consent form"?

I don't u why and how janic gets away with so much and still not made redundant, while my stupid lil boss had the nerve write me up for "listening to music and walking around", when I was pushing carts. How do you push carts while standing still? That is so misleading unreasonable micromanaging inappropriate and unjustified and unfair
Perhaps she assumed he'd like it based on the way he looks at her, acts with her like flirting, comments he's made about women, or thinking he'd like it because he's a guy. There's probably various forms of body language & nuances being used as well that us Aspies tend to not pick up on.
Two of the three jobs I had were retail & we were not allowed to listen to our own music outside the breakroom so that we could hear pages, customers, managers, & other employees & such as well as not distracting others. Plus getting carts in the parking lot is more dangerous if we cant hear cars. I def would not argue against that policy & I never listened to my own music at work. I paid attention to the music the stores were playing.


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10 May 2025, 10:49 pm

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Perhaps she assumed he'd like it based on the way he looks at her, acts with her like flirting, comments he's made about women, or thinking he'd like it because he's a guy.

Supervisor AW (f43) and supervisor MA(f35). Both said that they don't married to men.


There's probably various forms of body language & nuances being used as well that us Aspies tend to not pick up on.

Yes there are. I don't know how to read nonverbal communication

Two of the three jobs I had were retail & we were not allowed to listen to our own music outside the breakroom so that we could hear pages, customers, managers, & other employees & such as well as not distracting others. Plus getting carts in the parking lot is more dangerous if we cant hear cars. I def would not argue against that policy & I never listened to my own music at work. I paid attention to the music the stores were playing.[/quote]



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14 May 2025, 11:47 am

Today Raul told Supervisor MA that Janice was coming and Janice came and sat on a chair, not on MA's lap. MA said something and Janice slapped her. MA did not write up Janice for Assault or anything like that

Maybe Janice is having sex with the boss

I could not imagine sitting in a coworkers lap



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14 May 2025, 11:59 am

I need to know more about this


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29 May 2025, 9:44 pm

janice got Cashier of the Month for April.

(rolls eyes)

granted i don't know how many Recoveries and Credits she got, but whenever i see her, she's barking out of control or she's sitting on someone's lap.

i also don't understand why Supervisor MA and Supervisor AW haven't written her up for sitting on their laps.

but whatever. "not my circus, not my monkeys"

meanwhile i got written up.....