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29 May 2025, 2:39 pm

I'm not trans, but, over the years, I've been intermittently active in the LGBTQ+ rights movement.

I have NOT been much of an activist since 2012 or so, but occasionally I still pay attention to goings-on in the LGBTQ+ rights movement and community, including the trans community. And I'm a bit puzzled by some of the changes I've noticed during the past 10 to 15 years.

Two changes I find very puzzling: Sometime after 2010 or so, the word "transsexual" (see Wikipedia) fell out of favor -- but without any new word adequately replacing it. Meanwhile, the word "transgender" (see Wikipedia) narrowed in meaning.

"Transgender" was previously a wide-ranging umbrella term that encompassed not only the people known back then as transsexuals, but also cross-dressers, various other kinds of gender nonconformists, and even intersex people. Below is a diagram showing how the "transgender umbrella" was understood by many people in the LGBTQ+ community back around 2000 or so:

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Note that the above drawing contains quite a bit of outdated terminology, e.g. "transvestism," which has since been replaced by "cross-dressing."

But when "transsexual" fell out of favor, no adequate new term was coined. Instead, "transgender" narrowed in meaning. The word "transgender" no longer included intersex people, who now became the "I" in the very long acronym LGBTQIA. Even cross-dressers were no longer thought of as "transgender" if their cross-dressing did not reflect a full-time gender identity.

As this was happening, and afterward, there have apparently been quite a few fights over the new meaning of the word "transgender".

The folks who who are said to have fought for the narrowest definition of "transgender" are the "transmedicalists." According to the Wikipedia article on Transmedicalism:

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Transmedicalism is the idea that being transgender is primarily a medical issue related to the incongruence between an individual's assigned sex at birth and their gender identity, characterized by gender dysphoria. There are divides and debates within the transmedicalist community on the exact definition of who is or is not transgender. Many transmedicalists believe individuals who identify as transgender without experiencing gender dysphoria or desiring to undergo a medical transition through methods such as hormone replacement therapy or sex reassignment surgery are not genuinely transgender. They may also exclude those who identify themselves as non-binary from the trans label

I found quite a few articles opposing the transmedicalist position, e.g. What is transmedicalism and why is it harmful? on the website of Pink News.

The transmedicalists seem to have lost this debate, at least for the most part, within the LGBTQ+ community. "Transgender" is now used in a broader sense than what the transmedicalists would like, though still not in anywhere nearly as broad a sense as it was used back in the 1990's.

The debate apparently got very nasty, with both sides giving each other insulting nicknames. The transmedicalists were called "truscum" and their opponents were called "tucute" or "transtrenders."

As I was trying to research this debate this past week, I wondered if perhaps this entire conflict could have been avoided if only the transmedicalists had simply resurrected the word "transsexual" instead of trying to re-define "transgender" to mean what used to be called "transsexual."

Via Google, it was easy for me to find pages opposing the transmedicalist position, but harder to find pages defending it. So far, the only transmedicalist writings I've been able to find have been in the r/Transmedical subreddit. (Content warning: Quite a few posts bashing various categories of people in the larger transgender community.)

Lo and behold, I found that the "transmedicalists" -- at least at the present time -- are indeed trying to resurrect the word "transsexual." They feel alienated from the larger "trangender" community, but the word they identify with is "transsexual," not "transgender."

Is anyone else here familiar with this whole controversy?


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29 May 2025, 3:23 pm

I'm sort of at the center of that debate in that I pass as female as well as anyone. I have a petite hourglass figure and have the walk, mannerisms, and speech of a woman. I'm sufficiently female that I don't have an overwhelming need for surgery or HRT. I could be Intersex in that I'm missing a number of the markers folks look for when figuring out gender, such as male pattern baldness or an Adam's Apple. My pronouns are whatever you want them to be. Of course I'll notice if you change your mind as we interact.

At one time I searched for years to find an affordable men's suit that would fit me but concluded that "pigs would fly" before that happened and gave up on that.

I enjoy shopping for clothes. XS women's clothes are cheap and plentiful. XXS men's clothes that are theoretically the same size are impossible to find. I saw some ugly XS clothes at J. Crew--like they didn't really want to sell clothes to small men?

The person who clued me into wearing women's shoes once held the title as the World's Fastest Man!



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30 May 2025, 12:26 am

BTDT wrote:
I'm sort of at the center of that debate in that I pass as female as well as anyone. I have a petite hourglass figure and have the walk, mannerisms, and speech of a woman. I'm sufficiently female that I don't have an overwhelming need for surgery or HRT. I could be Intersex in that I'm missing a number of the markers folks look for when figuring out gender, such as male pattern baldness or an Adam's Apple.

Indeed, sounds to me like you might have an intersex condition.


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30 May 2025, 7:49 am

I have 32A cup breasts that nicely fill out women's tops, with the left being slightly larger than the right.
This also contributes to the idea that I may be intersex.

I think I look better in some of the clothes I buy than the models use to sell them, which may contribute to my lack of dysphoria.



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30 May 2025, 12:42 pm

Found another transmedicalist subreddit, called "r/Truscum". In it, I found a thread titled question about dysphoria in which the OP asks:

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what would happen if we collectively started saying "yea you dont need dysphoria to be trans(-gender) but you need it to be transsexual" ?

i mean tucutes dont wanna "trans their sex" but just "affirm their gender" (whatever that means), and therefore they couldnt say anything against that. also the majority of truscums/transmeds already speak of themselves as transsexuals afaik?

Content warning: Some of the replies contain expressions of what looks to me (an outsider) like internalized transphobia. I will not quote those replies here.

One of the more sensible replies:

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Not unless it’s destigmatised and those who are considered “truescum” (transmedicalists) and non-binary individuals (who are referred to as “tucutes” by the transmedical community) both acknowledge the reality of each other’s experiences instead of making fun of our severe dysphoria and us of their clothing choices which are expressions of themselves.

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Plenty of us say that, and they just say that “transsexual” is a “truscum dogwhistle” and continue to demonise us and ban us from transgender/transsexual spaces.

Another reply, along the same lines:

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They want to be us and insist that we are all transgender and that transsexual is a hateful term. I've tried before to make a separation between dysphorics and non dysphorics but they straight up refuse. They want people to think we're the same.


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01 Jun 2025, 2:44 pm

Transsexuals And Suffering on the YouTube channel of Mia Mulder, a transwoman in Sweden:



From the description on YouTube:

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One "transsexual's" viewpoint on the origin of the term, why some people use it and why some people desperately cling to it in an attempt to exclude others.

She has physically transitioned and identifies with the term "transsexual," but also rejects the efforts of some "transmedicalists" to chase non-dysphoric trans people out of the transgender community.

She also talks about the history of the word "transsexual."


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01 Jun 2025, 5:10 pm

Here is a tumblr post, dated Feb 3rd, 2021, about the history of the word "transgender," accompanied by the following diagram showing the meaning that word had back in the late 1990's and early 2000's:

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The graphic is identified as follows:

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a diagram of the “trans gender umbrella”, which encompasses, from left to right: masculine women, androgynous persons, feminine men, Hijra, transsexuals: male to female and female to male, two spirit, intersex persons, bigender, third gender, eunuchs, drag kings and queens, crossdressers, transvestites, intergender, gender queers, and agendered. The rain above the umbrella is labeled “feminine women”, “masculine men”, and “cisgender”. Below the umbrella is a silhouette of a crowd, and the text “encompasses any individual who crosses over or challenges their society’s traditional gender roles and/or expressions.” There is a small parenthesis that reads “graphic adapted from Josephine Tittsworth by Mel Reiff Hill”


The tumblr post quotes a book, Transgender Warriors: Making History from Joan of Arc to Dennis Rodman by Leslie Feinburg, 1996, as saying:

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I asked many self-identified transgender activists […] who they believed were included under the umbrella term. Those polled named: transsexuals, transgenders, transvestites, transgenderists, bigenders, drag queens, drag kings, cross-dressers, masculine women, feminine men, intersexuals […], androgynes, cross-genders, shape-shifters, passing women, passing men, gender-benders, gender-blenders, bearded women, and women bodybuilders who have crossed the line of what is considered socially acceptable for a female body.


The author of the blog post remarks:

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It wasn’t until recently (I think the last decade, more or less) that people started to define “trans” more specifically. Now, the way we use “trans” generally covers anyone who identifies with a different gender than the one they were assigned at birth. We have a clearer distinction between “cis” and “trans”, which imo, is definitely more practical than the broader definition(s) we had before.

But the reason we used to include so many folks under that label is not because we were mistaken about who’s trans and who’s cis; we just had a different word for that distinction, and a broader umbrella for the grey area. The reason we included all of those folks is because their experiences align with ours in a lot of ways.

Gender non-conformity in any capacity is punished by the cispatriarchy. A cis GNC person won’t experience that the same way that a trans person does, and an intersex person is going to have a different experience from both groups. I’m grateful we have the language to talk about that. But a lot of modern-day discourse around transphobia is pretty broken because we fail to acknowledge this venn diagram of experiences.


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01 Jun 2025, 6:14 pm

The American Psychological Association's website has the following page: Understanding transgender people, gender identity and gender expression, which has the subtitle "Transgender is an umbrella terms for persons whose gender identity, gender expression or behavior does not conform to that typically associated with the sex to which they were assigned at birth."

The inclusion of not just "gender identity" but also "gender expression or behavior" sounds to me like the 1990's concept of "transgender." But this document was "created: March 9, 2023" and "Last updated: July 8, 2024." Odd.

On the other hand, the APA website also has another document, Guidelines for Psychological Practice With Transgender and Gender Nonconforming People (PDF), which appears to recognize that there are people who are gender nonconforming but who do not identify as transgender.


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01 Jun 2025, 6:49 pm

On a website called Campus Pride I found the following PDF document: Lambda 10 Project: The Trans Umbrella, which, according to a note at the bottom, is "Adapted from Arizona State University’s SafeZone Gender Identity 101 curriculum. Edited by J. Pettitt 2007." It includes another "Transgender Umbrella" graphic typical of the 1990's and early 2000's. It begins with the following disclaimer:

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Important Note: These words are social constructs developed over time. New language is constantly formed to unite community members as well as divide groups by experience, politics, and other group memberships. I use the word “Trans” to serve the purpose of inclusion for all listed below, allies, partners, and families.

"Transgender" is defined as follows:

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An “umbrella term” for someone whose
self-identification, anatomy, appearance, manner,
expression, behavior and/or other’s perceptions
of challenges traditional societal expectations of
congruent gender expression and designated
birth sex.

Categories listed under the umbrella include: "Transexual," "Crossdressers," "Drag Performers," "Intersex Condition," and "Gender Variant/Queer," each with accompanying brief definitions.


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01 Jun 2025, 7:34 pm

Examples of more current definitions of "transgender":

1) The Advocates for Trans Equality website has a Frequently Asked Questions page that includes the following:

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What does it mean to be transgender?

Transgender people are people whose gender identity is different from the gender they were thought to be at birth. “Trans” is often used as shorthand for transgender.

[...]

What is the difference between being transgender and being gender non-conforming?

Being gender non-conforming means not conforming to gender stereotypes. For example, someone’s clothes, hairstyle, speech patterns, or hobbies might be considered more "feminine" or "masculine" than what's stereotypically associated with their gender.

Gender non-conforming people may or may not be transgender. For example, some women who were raised and identify as women present themselves in ways that might be considered masculine, like by having short hair or wearing stereotypically masculine clothes. The term “tomboy” refers to girls who are gender non-conforming, which often means they play rough sports, hang out with boys, and dress in more masculine clothing.

Similarly, transgender people may be gender non-conforming, or they might conform to gender stereotypes for the gender they live and identify as.

2) Another FAQ, on the GLAAD website: Transgender FAQ:

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What does transgender mean?

Transgender is a term used to describe people whose gender identity differs from the sex they were assigned at birth. Gender identity is a person’s internal, personal sense of being a man or a woman (or boy or girl.) For some people, their gender identity does not fit neatly into those two choices. For transgender people, the sex they were assigned at birth and their own internal gender identity do not match.

People in the transgender community may describe themselves using one (or more) of a wide variety of terms, including (but not limited to) transgender, transsexual, and non-binary. Always use the term used by the person.

3) On the website of the Human Rights Campaign: Transgender and Non-Binary People 101:

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What does it mean to be transgender?

Transgender, or trans, is an umbrella term for people whose gender identity is different from the sex assigned to them at birth. Although the word “transgender” and our modern definition of it only came into use in the late 20th century, people who would fit under this definition have existed in every culture throughout recorded history.

[...]

What does it mean to be gender non-conforming?

Gender non-conforming is an umbrella term referring to people who do not identify and/or present in a way that conforms to the traditional expectations of their gender, or whose gender expression does not fit neatly into a category. Some gender non-conforming people identify as non-binary, genderqueer, trans masculine, trans feminine, agender, bigender or other identities that reflect their personal experience. Some, but not all, gender non-conforming people identify as transgender. Some may identify their gender as gender non-conforming, while others may use this term to describe their gender presentation.

So it looks like the term "gender non-conforming" has replaced most of the outer reaches of what used to be called the "transgender umbrella."

The Human Rights Campaign still describes "transgender" as an "umbrella term," but it's a much smaller umbrella than the 1990's-style "transgender umbrella." The larger "umbrella term" is now "gender-nonconforming."

I personally would call myself "gender non-conforming," but not trans.


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