Making up for lost time

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I have a question for some of the older men on this site.

Many young men in their teens, 20's and 30's have little to no luck or experience with the opposite sex. As you got older did you find it easier to get dates and form relationships with women?

I am approaching 30 and I am hoping with age, success, and maturity that I may become more appealing. So far I have none of those things so I guess only time will tell.

From my experiences, it has become impossible to date and be in relationships. I’ve found that women around my age (I’m 30) want to date someone who has experience. They don’t want to go teaching someone the wants/needs/expectations to those who have none at our age. I’ve personally discovered that women want to date everybody around me except me.

I think with age you develop more confidence and wisdom based on past mistakes so its possible to meet more people and even get dates. But like over-ripe fruit you aren't as attractive so need to also have accumulated material wealth to compensate.

reminds me of discussions i've had with people over the years

Everthing is finite, nothing lasts forever.

And that includes the chances of dating/relationship/marriage, there's a finite age window for it.

And lost time can never be made up for.