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20 May 2025, 2:15 pm

How's it all going mate


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20 May 2025, 2:48 pm

Got amother session tomorrow morning.


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20 May 2025, 2:49 pm

Wow you're getting through them aren't you

How many do you get in all


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20 May 2025, 2:57 pm

Unlimited as long as you keep paying the £45 a week.


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20 May 2025, 3:02 pm

Oh that's pretty good

I wonder if you can do monthly


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21 May 2025, 8:20 am

Had anoother session this morning, nice to be getting to know my therapist a bit better. Had to go for a crap half way through the session but other than that it went well. Just want to feel a bit more centered and less nervous. If that happens I should be able to control my drinking better.


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21 May 2025, 8:22 am

Oh I would hate needing the bog half way through mate

Keep up the good work Rossall

You've got a lot of support here


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25 May 2025, 11:23 am

Got an appointment with my therapist at 2pm tomorrow.


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25 May 2025, 11:33 am

Nice one mate

I hope it goes well for you


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26 May 2025, 10:11 am

Mainly talked today about problems with noise from my neighbours and my sisters, one who has Multiple Sclerosis.


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26 May 2025, 10:13 am

Is it stuff you've been able to talk about before mate


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26 May 2025, 10:19 am

Not really, although I did speak to bloke from the council a few weeks ago. My brain is a bit seized up at the moment. It needs some lubrication from talking about things which I'm hoping I can do with my therapist, Anita rather than trying to lubricate it with alcohol.


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26 May 2025, 10:36 am

Well you just take it easy mate
Therapy is really hard going sometimes


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11 Jun 2025, 1:19 pm

Just had another session with my therapist, Anita. I found it difficult but she suggested taking one positive step a day and has give me some addiction and anxiety worksheets.


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11 Jun 2025, 1:31 pm

Yeah it's not easy mate
Is it too soon to tell if it's working yet


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11 Jun 2025, 3:22 pm

I’d urge anyone considering BetterHelp to think carefully before handing over personal information to a for-profit, unregulated online counselling platform. While the idea of accessible mental health support is appealing, it’s important to follow the money: BetterHelp is owned by Teladoc Health, a publicly traded company. That means their primary obligation is to shareholders, not your wellbeing.

They profit not just from your subscription fees but potentially from the data you hand over. Your messages, your emotional history, your personality traits — all of it is stored. While they claim it's secure and private, data policies can change, especially if the company is sold or merges. What feels like a private moment with a therapist could become a dataset in someone else’s asset portfolio down the line.

Giving away detailed psychological profiles to unregulated platforms creates a permanent record of your most vulnerable traits. In the wrong hands — say, a future parent company more aligned with advertising, predictive policing, insurance, or political profiling — that information could be repurposed, reinterpreted, or even sold off in ways you never consented to.

Regulation hasn't caught up to the risks yet. You're effectively creating a map of your mind and trusting that no one will ever use it against you. That’s a big gamble.

If cost or waitlists are barriers to therapy, I'd recommend checking with local mental health charities, your GP, or regulated UK-based platforms that fall under the Care Quality Commission (CQC) or equivalent bodies. At the very least, look into platforms that are transparent about their data retention policies and therapist qualifications.