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Jamesy
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17 Jun 2025, 9:04 am

There is this one guy in my social group who is not very nice to me sometimes and tries to compete against me but quite a few people think he’s a very nice guy.

Do you think perhaps I am a better judge of character compared to some others? Obviously a negative opinion of him.



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17 Jun 2025, 9:57 am

It's possible you might be more sensitive to certain aspects of this person's personality due to your own experiences of people

And if he's not very nice to you then you have every right to think he's not very nice

What has he done to you that's not very nice

Is it the Chinese guy by any chance


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17 Jun 2025, 9:58 am

babybird wrote:
It's possible you might be more sensitive to certain aspects of this person's personality due to your own experiences of people

And if he's not very nice to you then you have every right to think he's not very nice

What has he done to you that's not very nice

Is it the Chinese guy by any chance



Yeah the Chinese guy



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17 Jun 2025, 10:08 am

What has he done that isn't very nice to you


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17 Jun 2025, 12:29 pm

Testo drives in Males...hard to account for logic in their actions ? Just My humble opinion.
Being competitive, can occassionally come with the package .?


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17 Jun 2025, 12:37 pm

Jakki wrote:
Testo drives in Males...hard to account for logic in their actions ? Just My humble opinion.
Being competitive, can occassionally come with the package .?



What do you mean being competitive?