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Did you have:
Fetal growth restriction 25%  25%  [ 1 ]
Low birth weight 25%  25%  [ 1 ]
Small for gestational age birth weight 25%  25%  [ 1 ]
Pre-term birth 25%  25%  [ 1 ]
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11 Aug 2025, 5:53 am

FGR - fetal growth restriction,
LBW - low birth weight (<2500 g),
SGA - small for gestational age,
PTB - pre-term birth.

I am a male. I had FGR, LBW and almost certainly SGA. I had birth weight 2150 g, was born on time (possibly about 38th - 39th week of gestation), had body length 53 cm (according to Polish method of measuring newborns, using WHO method birth weight probably would be about 5 cm smaller), had head circumference 32 cm and chest circumference 28 cm, had the largest drop of body weight after birth to 2120 g (very small, only nearly 1,5%), had 10 Apgar points and I came to my home in 33rd day after my birth. My chest circumference was about 4 cm smaller than my head circumference, which means serious asymmetric FGR, especially combined with low birth weight despite being born on time.

I was diagnosed with Asperger syndrome in 2008 according to ICD-10, I was also diagnosed with OCD when I was about 17 years old. In 2015 I was diagnosed with schizotypal disorder in addition to Asperger syndrome and OCD. I may have ADHD-C according to DIVA-5 test from September 2024 made by a psychologist which lasted about two hours. I suppose that I have cognitive disengagement syndrome. I suppose that I have NVLD/DVSD because I had large VIQ-PIQ split in Wechsler test in 2016 (VIQ 126, PIQ 104, FSIQ 117), had poor results in Benton test for visual memory (I made four errors while the norm would be zero or one error) also in 2016. I have poor mental visualization abilities, especially in precise skills and 3D. I think mostly in words, abstracts, in logical, conceptual, intuitive way. I have no aphantasia, though.



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11 Aug 2025, 10:37 am

I have none.
My younger sister has at least 3 of them.

I was the healthier kid.
She was the sickly kid.

I'm autistic.
She's NT.

Didn't matter.


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11 Aug 2025, 10:39 am

My sister had at least 3 of them. She has high-functioning learning difficulties and better ability to make friends than me.

I had none of those yet my brain is f****d up.


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11 Aug 2025, 12:34 pm

@Edna3362, @Tamaya - I could be shocked by what you wrote - you both had better prenatal growth and you have autism and you wrote about siblings who had three (or more) of them and are NT/not-autistic, it is very surprising 8O

I had the poorest intrauterinal growth from three sibling and I am the most autistic of the children of my parents, my sister who was "between" me and my brother can be autistic too and in some skills she can be more affected than me (sound sensitivity, worse school performance in adulthood, worse handwriting, probably she learned to ride a bite somewhat later than me) and our brother is NT and he functions well.



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11 Aug 2025, 12:43 pm

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@Edna3362, @Tamaya - I could be shocked by what you wrote - you both had better prenatal growth and you have autism and you wrote about siblings who had three (or more) of them and are NT/not-autistic, it is very surprising 8O


This is why I get really angry about me having AS, because I feel it's just so unlucky as there was no real cause of my case and I could have been NT like all my cousins and had a better teenage life. It just feels so unfair.
I know I shouldn't waste my life thinking what could have been but whenever I get reminded of it I just get so angry and resentful.


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11 Aug 2025, 8:52 pm

nca14 wrote:
@Edna3362, @Tamaya - I could be shocked by what you wrote - you both had better prenatal growth and you have autism and you wrote about siblings who had three (or more) of them and are NT/not-autistic, it is very surprising 8O

I had the poorest intrauterinal growth from three sibling and I am the most autistic of the children of my parents, my sister who was "between" me and my brother can be autistic too and in some skills she can be more affected than me (sound sensitivity, worse school performance in adulthood, worse handwriting, probably she learned to ride a bite somewhat later than me) and our brother is NT and he functions well.

My autism origin is a mystery.

Neurodivergence doesn't run in either side of my family. Cousins that I did have who are ND, it's in the in-laws that are prone to any sort of neurodivergence.



The supposed fact and statistical odds itself makes me laugh.
Thus didn't matter. It's mine and won't be anyone else's.


I'm more pissed about other childhood stuff -- that are largely preventable, very much available to do or have if it weren't for ignorance of adults in my youth -- that affects adulthood more than me being born autistic.


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12 Aug 2025, 2:33 am

the extended birthing with complications, asfar as i have seen, can give the disabled autistic symptoms
Birth Asphyxia (https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/books/NBK430782/)
Perinatal asphyxia occurs when blood flow or gas exchange to or from the fetus is disrupted immediately before, during, or after birth. This condition can lead to severe systemic and neurological complications due to reduced oxygen and blood supply to vital organs, including the brain, heart, liver, and muscles. When placental (prenatal) or pulmonary (postnatal) gas exchange is compromised, oxygen deprivation occurs, causing progressive hypoxemia and hypercapnia. If severe, this oxygen deficit triggers anaerobic metabolism and lactic acidosis. Neonatal hypoxic-ischemic encephalopathy (HIE) specifically refers to the neurological damage resulting from perinatal asphyxia and ischemia.



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12 Aug 2025, 10:34 am

None of those. And labor was kinda short for a first time mom. I also slept very well, even as a newborn.

BiL (not ASD) suffered asphyxiation at birth but turned out fine.