Horrible Night with my Dad.

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Hi yall,
I had another horrible night with my dad yet again. It all started when he informed me with no notice that I have dentist appointment tommorow. I went to the dentist months ago and it was a horrible visit and hurt so much. It was just a check up and a cleaning. I told my dad that I wasnt going because I need a sedation dentist. My dad started yelling and said most men in their right mind would run me out of the house into the cold with nowhere to go. I told him I wanted to have freedom of speech on facebook.

He said he would kick me out if I did not get his permission for every facebook post. he said he would kick me out and call the cops on me for elder abuse if I made a post tonight without his permission. He said he would call the cops on me for elder abuse if he yelled at me again. I did not yell at him once tonight.....I just merely disagreed with him.

Also kicking me out for facebook would be illegal retaliation in Texas since I pay 500 dollars a month in rent to them and I have tenants rights. I said I would post on facebook tommorrow and he said he would take my computer that my parents gave me and he would break the computer that I am typing on right now. he said that most men would of left the family. He cried and said i am doing the work of the Devil. He went on and on saying I was abusing him when he was projecting since he was the one yelling at me.

I know i need the dentist but I need the right one for me. He said I would be so out of luck when he dies and my mom remarries and he basically said my new stepdad would try to hurt me and he even implied that the new stepdad may even kill me. I just hate living with my parents. Its living heck. I would not wish my life on my worst enemy. He said he wont let me post on facebook because he does not want to disagrace the family to the church of Christ. I just hate that my dad acts like he is so good and so righteous and so Christian when he bullies me and trolls me every day and has yelled at me pretty much every day of my life since I can remember.

My dad said he may leave the inheritance to the Church of Christ. My life is ruined if he does that.All hope is lost if that happens.

You should get a lawyer although I don't know how you're going to do that.

could you get a place in a home for autistic people in texas? they might help you talk to your dad

How old is your Dad..? early onset alzheimers....Am really sorry to hear of your situation with your Dad ....Hope things get calmed down .

I'm sorry you're experiencing this. I'm assuming you wouldn't be able to have a calm conversation with your dad about him shouting at you? maybe in a public place so it discourages him from shouting at you like a cafe, let him know how it makes you feel? maybe ask him is there something you could do to make the relationship better and in turn he may be willing to compromise? I don't know this is just me going off the bat, my own father was a very unreasonable man who is now passed and there was never any compromise with him but I don't know your dad, I'm hoping there's leeway for change.

Your dad sounds like a nasty piece of work.

Sweet Pea hugs

Maybe a grim consolation might be, He will most likely die before you do ...