I am autistic, fiercely non-materialistic, and I completely despise modern social status games, pretense, and small talk. I don’t have typical hobbies or special interests. Right now, my single-minded goal in life is to find a committed, romantic relationship. Because I carry a lot of deep trauma and grief from being single for so long, my brain is completely hyper-focused on this. Until I am securely in a relationship, it is incredibly difficult and exhausting for me to talk about casual, low-stakes topics—I need to focus strictly on our compatibility and commitment first. However, once I am in a secure relationship and finally feel safe, that defensive wall comes down. I am completely open and happy to talk about all other aspects of life once that foundation of security is built.
I am looking for a girlfriend who is deeply authentic, direct, and completely done with the games of the modern dating world. If you are looking for a casual "hangout" or a normal social climber, I am not your person. But if you want a partner who will never lie to you, never play political games, and who will be single-mindedly dedicated to building a safe, honest, and committed life with you from day one, please message me. Let's bypass the fake stuff and see if we match.
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