"You're using it as a crutch..."

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[Here's a rundown of my spiritual history: when I converted in 2001, he was thrilled. I stayed at his church three years, even though I didn't believe in the women's garment theology (24/7 dresses, no makeup, never cutting hair), and eventually I headed the nursery services. Then, when hubby was tired of that church, we switched to another one, and I gave up the ministry there to start anew. Stayed at that church two years, and in the meantime I again worked in the nursery and painstakingly learned how to "deal" with being in that church, even though the membership numbered over 5,000 and I couldn't remember a parent's face to save my soul. Then, when he felt THAT church wasn't spiritually nurturing, I left my ministry there and went to this new church. Now here it is, ten months later. I'm finally getting accepted despite my quirks, and again, I've done very well with finding my little niche ministry (again, kids' ministry and also baking the communion bread). And now he feels like he needs a "preaching" church instead of a "teaching" church, which is where we are now.--qoute

Well it sounds to me that you need to tell him he can go were he like to worship but your will be attenting the church that best mets YOUR spirtual needs . You aren't his dog your his wife there is a vast diffrence in the two that some men fail to see. Best of luck Oh and if you do tell him to were to go so to speek please let us know.

Fall in line? FALL IN LINE? Are you a soldier or his wife? If he really used that term then that would annoy me more than the whole moving church thing to be honest.