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07 Apr 2006, 2:59 pm

just have to pray they dont do something to interfere



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just have to pray they dont do something to interfere



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07 Apr 2006, 3:13 pm

Are you alright you are repeating yourself.



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07 Apr 2006, 3:14 pm

I am here for you.



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07 Apr 2006, 3:18 pm

browser problem.



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08 Apr 2006, 10:35 am

How could they interfere? Aren't you an adult?


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08 Apr 2006, 11:29 am

they always can find a way,
and the previous poster was right i should chill for a while, getting myself worked up wont help anything.



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08 Apr 2006, 11:41 am

they always can find a way,
and the previous poster was right i should chill for a while, getting myself worked up wont help anything.



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08 Apr 2006, 11:41 am

they always can find a way,
and the previous poster was right i should chill for a while, getting myself worked up wont help anything, particularly before im able to do anything.



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08 Apr 2006, 12:39 pm

You did not answer the question and still too general. No one can help if you are not specific enough. It sound like you live with them. Will they cut you off how will they interfer?



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08 Apr 2006, 2:05 pm

they will lie make up something to a doctor or a counselor or rearrange things into something thats something similar but not quite. they feel their entitletel to thier own facts

case in point.

everyone thinks gm had problem with neglecting safety. not true they just couldnt define the problem

they confuse my personal problems with them, life etc for being medical when it personal

they created so many of my problems, and then blamed me and tried to use it to sieze controll of me again, for example
my father berating me and insulting and always so sarcastic me for having trouble with homework
he find my weakness and make me cry

never figured out me feeling like crap was the cause

i wish i could come up with a better example



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08 Apr 2006, 2:08 pm

they will lie make up something to a doctor or a counselor or rearrange things into something thats something similar but not quite. they feel their entitletel to thier own facts

case in point.

everyone thinks gm had problem with neglecting safety. not true they just couldnt define the problem

they confuse my personal problems with them, life etc for being medical when it personal

they created so many of my problems, and then blamed me and tried to use it to sieze controll of me again, for example
my father berating me and insulting and always so sarcastic me for having trouble with homework
he find my weakness and make me cry

never figured out me feeling like crap was the cause

i wish i could come up with a better example

oh my concerns were never valid
rather than talk with me i was always told shut up



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08 Apr 2006, 2:27 pm

I see if your parents make fun of you like mine they are frusturated. Why don;t you say I love you or ask for a hug when he does that. Did you try and tell him how it makes you feal?



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08 Apr 2006, 2:45 pm

How about I am trying my best. My mom has bipolar disorder it makes her life terrible so she has trouble putting up with me. I also have trouble with her. After she got caught selling drugs and got out she was put on lithium court ordered. After that she stopped helping me with cancer and support services. She got a boyfriend and moved out. Your father seems to be not in the mood to handle you. Look back into his child hood. Take guess what he might be upset about. You might find its something else that agravates him and you are the straw that breaks the camel's back. There always an issue that makes patients hard. I don;t think these are your real parents they have issues that make them seem like jerks am I right?



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08 Apr 2006, 3:18 pm

It sounds like your family is sick. The more time you spend away from them the healthier you will be. Don't waste your time trying to figure them out or help them solve their problems; you can't. Just do your best to get away from them. Then you can become the person you should be. Find a supportive network; friends, co-workers, counselors, doctors. teachers. That's very important. How about a pastor? Do you to to church or know any?


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