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Oh, well, I meant no compliment, gender is gender, it has little bearing on anything really. I mean, you are probably quite intelligent, you are definitely literate as you read books and can type on an internet forum, your ideas make sense in my mind, I mean, you probably have good qualities, but you really have not shown an accomplishment or thought of an idea of such great brilliance or humor as such that I feel that a direct compliment is deserved, I mean, I probably have not come up with anything that good either and if we just give compliments around too freely then they become less valuable due to the high supply.

That being said, let it also be mentioned that I mean no insult and I find it nice to have anyone to type to on an internet forum. If you really want a compliment, just take what I previously mentioned about your probable traits as a compliment as the traits that you would seem to have are all good and not bad. Anyway, that being said, I really could go for some pie right about now!

Oh, well, I meant no compliment, gender is gender, it has little bearing on anything really. I mean, you are probably quite intelligent, you are definitely literate as you read books and can type on an internet forum, your ideas make sense in my mind, I mean, you probably have good qualities, but you really have not shown an accomplishment or thought of an idea of such great brilliance or humor as such that I feel that a direct compliment is deserved, I mean, I probably have not come up with anything that good either and if we just give compliments around too freely then they become less valuable due to the high supply.

That being said, let it also be mentioned that I mean no insult and I find it nice to have anyone to type to on an internet forum. If you really want a compliment, just take what I previously mentioned about your probable traits as a compliment as the traits that you would seem to have are all good and not bad. Anyway, that being said, I really could go for some pie right about now!

I defintely read books. If that's the case why are so many male students at school like "You got told by a girl" and all that?

I am assuming that that might be part of male egotism or some form of sexism, it is usually some stupid trait that these individuals have for the heck of it. I don't know, I never said I was a representative for all of my gender and I tend to doubt that you are a representative for your gender.

I am assuming that that might be part of male egotism or some form of sexism, it is usually some stupid trait that these individuals have for the heck of it. I don't know, I never said I was a representative for all of my gender and I tend to doubt that you are a representative for your gender.


Ah thanks. So their immaturaity. Good point -represntatives.
Regarding achievements, does telling you about my young lifesavers count?
No, I did not really want a compliment, I merely mnetioned that I took it as such because I didn't want you to think I was offended.
((btw, does anyone know when the aspergers' phone is due to be released in the U.K. - england specifically.))

Yeah, it is likely just immaturity... or a deep psychological disorder but the former is more likely than the latter. I don't know what your young lifesavers are. The only lifesavers I know, are people who save lives and life saver candies. I don't know many people that own other people so I tend to doubt the former and candy is rarely described as young so I doubt the latter too which leaves me with confusion. I live in the US so I wouldn't know.

Yeah, it is likely just immaturity... or a deep psychological disorder but the former is more likely than the latter. I don't know what your young lifesavers are. The only lifesavers I know, are people who save lives and life saver candies. I don't know many people that own other people so I tend to doubt the former and candy is rarely described as young so I doubt the latter too which leaves me with confusion. I live in the US so I wouldn't know.

Let me explain:
St. John's ambulance cadets - is something I go to.
The basic cadet qualification is 'Young lifesavers'

I do not think that being a volunteer counts as an accomplishment. If it were a hard position to get then maybe but I tend to doubt it was that highly selective. All that your volunteerism shows is what you like to do with your time.

I do not think that being a volunteer counts as an accomplishment. If it were a hard position to get then maybe but I tend to doubt it was that highly selective. All that your volunteerism shows is what you like to do with your time.

Fair enough.

Right, I am not trying to diminish volunteerism as a good thing. I just don't think it necessarily deserves an automatic pat on the back from people you hardly know. If you recently got voted best volunteer of the month I might congratulate you but that is partially because I would be expected to do something like that. Meh, we have definitely trailed far away from the initial conversation though really.