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Ha dishonorable. Nice word Emp. Manuipulate why would I do that? I do I care to even do that. I really don't care. I'll keep away from Fiz and not ask another stupid question. Sorry for big flop. Nice to know you Fiz.

TigerFire, this seems quite inappropriate for the haven forum.

How would you feel like you're being bullied here?

How would you feel like you're being bullied here?

Sorry, but as someone who has been (and still is) bullied, that's the most laughable thing I ever heard.
Trust me, that is nowhere near bullying.

Iammeandnoonelse, where is that you are being bullied? Are you still young enough to be in school or is this occurring at work?

I was bullied at school for being different, clever and because of my size (I used to be skinny and very short, now I'm slender i.e. I no longer look undernourished and petite). It was horrible. Then I went to college and then university and everything was great. People liked me which was fab.

Then I started my first full time job after I left university and I was bullied terribly (I am living proof that adults can be much worse than kids) and do you know why? Because I wouldn't take part in bullying another person in the workplace, so they made me the victim instead. I ended up leaving a) because I thought that their bullying culture was sick and b) if I would have stayed I probably would have killed myself the bullying was that bad (I still can't bring myself to talk about what they did to me), they even did it to me outside of the workplace, I couldn't get away from it. And all I did was refuse to be nasty to someone else. Go figure.

Well I've left them behind now and I am definitely in a better position than they are and, although I'm still recovering, I'm doing this ok. Karma will come and get them all one day and I reckon it will be pretty devastating for them. Their own fault for being such awful awful people.

If it is through work, is there any way you can get out of this situation? I know the whole school thing is a bit of a tricky one.

fiz,

it's so funny how things can work out. These a**holes bullied you merclessly to the point where you had to quit your job. But you ended up getting another job, so in all essence you came out on top.

I just read this. Are you implying that I bullied you in this thread? Is that what you are saying? That makes me mad.

If anyone was being a bully, it was you, TigerFire. YOU were trying to bully Fiz into feeling guilty. And then you have the audacity to claim that you are the victim! That YOU were being bullied ! !

I was merely being assertive in response to your attempted-and-failed guilt-trip bullying/manipulation of Fiz. And in this message here, I am merely defending myself against your accusation.

Iammeandnoonelse, where is that you are being bullied? Are you still young enough to be in school or is this occurring at work?

School. Thanks for your concern.

YOU were trying to bully Fiz. And then you have the audacity to claim that you are the victim!

You needen't act so shocked.
I admit it's not right but it's not that uncommon either.

Look I was bullying her. How was I? You mean I turned on her? Why why do you think I was doing that? Do you think I can be that way? Hello I'm not really doing anything to anyone. These are empty words with no meaning to it. I'm sorry that they might have hurt someone but I've said I was truely sorry. Why bring up the old dirt and throw at me if it's over and dealt with. It's not my fault that I take everything seriously. That's how I always take everything. I can't believe I'm having to defend my self. Words are words. Sometimes I get two things confused. I mean I'm a novelist I have a good way with words. If I'm words come out like fighting words well it doesn't mean that I really mean it. Not all my words are fiction and have no meaning to it. When I'm giving advice and comfort I am really meaning it. I really can be very unfeeling and unemotional on here. I take that these words are actually being said verbally. I can't really believe that some words I've said made this whole thing into one confused argument with no points or meaning to it. Why actually am I taking these words being said to be the wrong way? I don't know and I think it won't change. Writing is my enjoyment. Giving advice here is great. I'm not meaning to hurt anyone, cast anyone down, or destory them. I'm not that way. So please everyone that I've got angry at or been harash to I'm sorry. Actually some of those words actually have a point to them. I'm not doing this aimlessly being arguementive to everyone. So please why continue this? Do I need to go on and on about how I've got this whole thing confused? I easily get confused.

That happens to me alot more likely before a big test or the end of the school year I usually get it cause of over exitment that leads to dissapointment or beacause of stress. I have been feeling it for a while now It seems like its been more often and more often the older I get.

Why why do you think I was doing that?

Because of the attempt to generate guilt.

I'm going to ignore that one.

I'm going to ignore that one.

You asked.
If you choose to ignore the answer then that's your lookout.

You love to copy me don't you? Can't you get someone else to mock without using my own words against me? I don't think this is highly fair now that I finished the whole arguement thing like a week ago and you're still on me about it. Is it this the whole reason that you don't have anything else to do but to enrage me or mock me? You know there a lot more people on the website than just me. I'm through with this whole arguement and I don't know why the heck you would slam this whole thing back at me. Everyone is finished and no one cares now. I'm not jumping down your throat but you wouldn't it get.

Iammeandnooneelse - use the quote tags if you're quoting someone else or click the quote button. That way your replies would make more sense.