Being a lesbian is a disorder?

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Get some counselling and fast!! There is nothing wrong with being a lesbian at all but there is something wrong with being told that what is natural to you is wrong...

Homosexuality, bisexuality and being a transgender are not mental disorders, they are not listed in the DMS books...

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Your sexuality is part of who you are. Just because it isn't normal (i.e. what most people are doing) doesn't mean it isn't right. I strongly urge you to forget the homophobic s**t fed to you by your school.

A. Yes, being a lesbian is not normal.

B. It is better to be yourself than to be normal (in my opinion.)

C. There is nothing wrong with you if you are a lesbian. You do not have a disorder if you are a lesbian.

D. The problem here is the fact that you are not accepting yourself, not the fact you are a lesbian.
I recently realized I was bisexual. I had had crushes on girls before this, but I didn't realize what they were because I thought I was heterosexual and I was suppressing my true sexuality. Now I feel a lot better now that I've figured out what I am, and I've accepted my sexuality as a part of me.
I haven't told anyone outside of the family yet, I don't plan on doing so for a while. There are people out there who aren't friends with anyone who isn't homosexual, to put it mildly. In my opinion, you should learn to accept yourself first, and then, once you feel comfortable about telling others, you can worry about that. Just a suggestion.

Claiming that there is something wrong with a lesbian is like claiming there's something wrong with being human. It's just a difference that people will have to understand if they wish to know you. Plus, you gotta remember that there's 6 billion people on this planet. According to my last research run, 10% of the population is gay, bi, etc.
Approximately 50% is female. Thus, if you do the math, that leaves 300000000 other people like you. Also, your issue may just be that A) Some girls are trying to blend in. I'm a guy, and I try to blend in with people by acting normal (Not sexualitywise, but just in general. Normal speech patterns, layman terms, etc.) or B) Many of them haven't come to terms with it yet. Just let it have time, and think on it. It might not work for you as well as it does for me, but it SHOULD help.

The population of humans is actually 7 billion, so there's actually 350,000,000 million people like you.