Linda123 wrote:
In regards to the issue of providing some sort of personal material to use, do you think it would be appropriate perhaps to use that as leverage for good behavior? A reward of sorts? Something he can use when he doesn't act out but which he has to go without on the days that he does something he knows he shouldn't? I suppose like one might do with a video game, phone, etc, except I feel he'd value this much more.
Only if he understands why its innapropriate to lure people into his room and stare at others' feet in public. If not, the reward/deprivation is gonna confuse him and he might think you're doing this to piss him off. Thats where a specialist could come in handy.