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09 Dec 2015, 3:06 pm

Make sure there's parking there.

Congratulations! You could hang out for the next three weeks until you start there.



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09 Dec 2015, 3:20 pm

There's plenty of parking - the site is out in the boonies by the highway. Mix of residential and industrial. The bus ride is 30 minutes.



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09 Dec 2015, 3:40 pm

You go, grrrl!

Like I said before, if you are getting stressed at this job, let us know, we may have some tips for you. Feel free to PM.

I hope everyone who reads this is reassured that sometimes, good outcomes do happen.


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09 Dec 2015, 8:25 pm

Thanks, I'm sure I'll be posting about my experience in the future. This will be a totally new experience.



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09 Dec 2015, 8:29 pm

A 30-minute bus ride is nothing LOL

Unless you really want a car, and can really afford it (or if someone buys you one!), I wouldn't bother getting the car.

I have a 1 1/4-hour commute EACH WAY (if all goes right), even allowing for the fact that I drive to a parking space about 10 minutes from a subway station.



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09 Dec 2015, 8:52 pm

My concern for the time is more regarding Henry than me. I find bus trips relaxing for the most part. But Henry will be alone for 10 hours a day, 5 days a week. That won't work.
I have considered many options and think that for the following three reasons:

1) Henry's teeth are bad. He keeps getting infections and I can't afford the dental work he needs.
2) My mobility has deteriorated with my degenerative disc disease and I am finding it harder to control him. Henry is an aggressive dog and wears a prong choke collar and muzzle. He has attacked dogs in the past.
3) Rehoming him has proven impossible in the past because of his aggression, age and health.

... I may euthanize him. To me this path seems both easy and incredibly hard. I love Henry and wish I could give him the home he deserves. It seems that I can't.



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09 Dec 2015, 10:47 pm

I see what you mean.

You really thought this through.

I do hope you don't have to euthanize Henry.



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10 Dec 2015, 7:30 am

To put Henry in perspective ...

I'm just waking up, and didn't read your latest post thoroughly, Androbot.... but I thought Henry was your husband or partner, so I was pretty shocked to see you were going to euthanize him! All because of bad teeth! lol

You need a job, and you have one. But you can't be both places. Do what you have to do in this life. You might call around for a rescue organization but if he's as aggressive as you describe, that might not help - but it might help you feel you did all you could.

You have my blessing.


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10 Dec 2015, 11:17 am

BeaArthur wrote:
To put Henry in perspective ...

I'm just waking up, and didn't read your latest post thoroughly, Androbot.... but I thought Henry was your husband or partner, so I was pretty shocked to see you were going to euthanize him! All because of bad teeth!

Haha ... I should have been clearer about that.

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You need a job, and you have one. But you can't be both places. Do what you have to do in this life. You might call around for a rescue organization but if he's as aggressive as you describe, that might not help - but it might help you feel you did all you could.

You have my blessing.

Thanks. I have tried re-homing, including rescues, to no success.

I put Henry down this morning. The vet agreed with my decision. He had a good death. I petted his ears as he lost consciousness. It took a while for his heart to stop beating. He was always strong.



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10 Dec 2015, 11:51 am

Will you get another dog?

I'm sorry that this happened to you...and to Henry.

But it was the right thing to do.

At least there was no pain.



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10 Dec 2015, 12:28 pm

Thank you.

I will not be getting another dog until my circumstances change. My new job is 40 hours/week - no time to acclimatize a new dog. However I am considering getting another kitty.

I feel so far away from myself. All the pain meds and the psych meds and my ever-changing environment. I can't even cry. I feel like a robot.



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10 Dec 2015, 1:35 pm

Give yourself time.


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10 Dec 2015, 2:19 pm

I wish there was a way for you to get closer to yourself and not be numb, Ann--without so much of what makes you sad.

I think you're doing quite well right now.

In my opinion, no matter how much appeal a car has, I don't think obtaining one would make much sense at this point.



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10 Dec 2015, 2:53 pm

Sorry to hear about your dog, sometimes the best decisions are the hardest ones.

Good news on the job though.

Have you tried back supports or braces at all?



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10 Dec 2015, 10:07 pm

BeaArthur wrote:
Give yourself time.

Time helps.

kraftiekortie wrote:
In my opinion, no matter how much appeal a car has, I don't think obtaining one would make much sense at this point.

I know. Just dreaming.

neilson_wheels wrote:
Have you tried back supports or braces at all?

I bought a cane the other day. I use it around the house. It helps.

Thanks :)



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11 Dec 2015, 4:55 am

My problems are with my lower back and undiagnosed. If I feel sore or am doing any heavy lifting I wear a back brace. It's a neoprene belt with some flexible plastic stiffeners sewn into it. It makes a massive difference for me, just a thought that you might want to consider.