I don’t have any female friends I know in person

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You've never been there, so you don't understand. Additionally, the differences between the genders are immense. Women have a thing called 'the medium is the message', meaning that, the way a woman says something, says more than the contents itself, but for men it's the opposite. When men speak it's about the contents hence to understand a lady you have to observe HOW she's speaking instead of WHAT she is speaking. In essence men and women speak two different languages, one is about the medium the other is about the content. Skillful men who understand how to read women will talk about this as it occurs because men are usually making the mistake of trying to understand women as they understand men, leading to dysfunction. Women can read other other's language just fine, but men can't.

Women are nurturers so they give to children confidence, whereas men establish their limits by guiding them towards things that they're good at. You'd see this when a mother is complimenting their child's poor drawing, saying "it's amazing" in order to spur confidence in the child. Men don't tend to do this, which is why mothers are valuable. Later on in life that's when the fathers will guide their children to what they excel at, but a mother's duty is to maintain a kind of broadness in the child to test the waters to what they might be gifted in, hence women tend to be generalists while men tend to be specialists. This is why women find emotionally fulfilling work such as teaching more appealing as it let's them remain broad in order to nurture children.

It's possible for single parents to raise a good child, but not likely, if you’d notice something about school shooters and mass shooters is that they tend to come from broken homes, the father has something that the child wants, as does the mother.

Wholesome families raise wholesome children, everyone wants a mother and a father for good reason.

Aside from one person who I haven’t seen in person for some months now, I don’t have any female friends in person. A lot of this has to do with the gender roles of the culture I live in. Women I encounter tend to stick to other women as far as friendships go and once they have a boyfriend or husband, the men usually won’t let them have male friends unless the male friend is himself in a relationship. This really discourages me and it feels like people are less interested in making new friends as the years grind on for me. I am not getting any younger and I am at the age I should be comfortable socially.