I think it's worth pointing out that it's 'our' country. Sometimes you win, sometimes I win. That's my definition of democracy. Some elections my voice is heard, some elections your voice is heard. I didn't recognize "our" country during the Obama presidency, but I accepted that you won. When the next election came round I voted and my candidate won. You are acting the same way I acted when Obama was in office, the big difference is that Republicans didn't try to overturn your vote. Democrats would overturn my vote if they could... Republicans behaved similarly with Bill Clinton. I wasn't much into politics when he was in office, it's only recently that I have paid attention to the similarities. The exception was that Bill Clinton was actually caught in a lie, but the thing with Monica Lewinsky was no different than JFK's escapades. They were both womanizers, Bill should've just said, "yes, I did it." End of story, imo.
I don't know how old you are, not that it matters. But I'm noticing a trend in the folks 30 and under. They believe their progressive ideas are the best, across the board. And because they think that, they think they should win all the time. It doesn't work that way for the vast majority of us. We win some, we lose some.
It's not a lifetime sentence. The behavior is galvanizing the conservatives so that they will vote contrary to your wishes AGAIN. If Democrats would have just shut up about it, they might've re-thought their vote. But because so many seem to believe that their way is the only way, you've inadvertently brought about the very thing you hate.
I've said this so many times, but still there are the railing sjws, the cage shakers, etc... 
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Disagreeing with you doesn't mean I hate you, it just means we disagree.
Neurocognitive exam in May 2019, diagnosed with ASD, Asperger's type in June 2019.