Does it really matter if you don't drive a car ?
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As has already been said, if the public transport is good then you don't need a car. It can also help if you live within walking distance of the places you most want to go to, as long as there's footpaths. If you're fit enough to cycle and there are suitable tracks, that' very helpful. Buses in the UK these days don't seem to run very much after about 9pm, which obviously doesn't cater for visiting friends for an evening, so you may need to take a taxi home. It's a situation that may get worse in the future. There's no public transport to my sister's house, and the bus to my son's place leaves me with a long walk up a steep hill. The bus to my parents' house was axed.
Public transport doesn't exist in some places. I've seen parts of the USA where you couldn't live independently without driving. Food supermarket (end everything else) too far from house to walk to, especially in extreme weather, and no footpaths.
I suppose driving is often seen to confer a sense of status. It's certainly liberating to be able to go to places when you want to, and to have haulage capacity at your fingertips. I don't hold with "snazzy car snobbery." It's never been a problem for me because I don't readily make friends with people who have that mentality.
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Bus systems are more likely to be developed in poor areas. There is a demand for buses that does not exist in wealthy neighborhoods.
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Employers can and often do discriminate against non-drivers in job listings and require a person to have a drivers license, even if it has nothing to do with the job description.
Aside from that, there is a social stigma associated with not driving a car, i.e, people think you may have learning difficulties for not having gone & got a license.
Further, people discriminate and assume that people without a car cannot afford one.
So yes, it does matter, in terms of how other people will treat you, unfortunately.
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Aside from that, there is a social stigma associated with not driving a car, i.e, people think you may have learning difficulties for not having gone & got a license.
Further, people discriminate and assume that people without a car cannot afford one.
So yes, it does matter, in terms of how other people will treat you, unfortunately.
How are they going to do that unless you make it an issue first? Unless you job duties involve driving a non-company vehicle. It won't be an issue until you don't show up.
Aside from that, there is a social stigma associated with not driving a car, i.e, people think you may have learning difficulties for not having gone & got a license.
Further, people discriminate and assume that people without a car cannot afford one.
So yes, it does matter, in terms of how other people will treat you, unfortunately.
How are they going to do that unless you make it an issue first? Unless you job duties involve driving a non-company vehicle. It won't be an issue until you don't show up.
I just meant that employers sometimes discriminate against non-drivers from the get-go, on job listings that are advertised, before a person even gets to the interview stage or to a job offer.
So unless you are prepared to lie & say you can drive/have a car, it would be an issue? And would likely put off someone applying in the first place.
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In the US yes because every place is made for cars and not pedestrian friendly. Though some cities are making it more bicycle and pedestrian friendly and putting in light rails again. But if you live in a small city or rural area, you need a car. Not driving becomes a burden to other people. Plus when you are unable to drive, you are stuck in your house because you know you can't rely on people to take you everywhere and you only save it for important things like food and appointments and you wait when someone is heading somewhere you want to go to just to tag along. This was how my disabled friend lived and he even walked two miles to work before his disability got worse and was forced to quit his job.
Driving gives you freedom.
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So unless you are prepared to lie & say you can drive/have a car, it would be an issue? And would likely put off someone applying in the first place.
Driving gives you freedom.
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