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MartineRomy
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Yesterday, 1:43 am

Be clear and honest with him and yourself. If you know you will 'cheat' on him again for whatever reason, make sure he is ok with that, really ok. For both sides. Mutual consent is the important bit on this, you both need to be aware and ok with what you are doing. Only after this it will not be cheating. If it is the cheating that excites you, you are in for a rough ride.

If he wants someone for himself and you can not be that person, let him go or you will be in this situation again.



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Yesterday, 3:59 pm

Mona Pereth wrote:
If you are unable or unwilling to be monogamous, then you should consider exploring the polyamory scene, in which people mutually consent to have multiple partners.

Note, however, that polyamory is a subculture with its own rules and expectations, which you should read up on before you get involved.


^this