I'm new to this board. I have ADD and maybe Asperger's.

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Hi Letgoblues,

Unfortunately, I can't help you with any dating issues, since I've never dated before.

However, I do have some advice for you about posting on the forum.

Instead of posting a lot of little messages, try posting one longer one, if you can. Then, you should try to wait awhile before posting again, because it takes time for people to read your message and reply. Posting too many little messages can get annoying, because it keeps making your topic go to the top of the forums, when there is no discussion happening. This is called "bumping threads" and is generally frowned upon.

I never really liked writing in school. It seems when I write I always forget what to write. I find it much easier speaking. When I was a little kid in School late 80s early 90s I was always known as a talker to the teachers and my parents motor mouth I guess that's the difference with me. I've had ADD all my life, but I disagree with the new Doc I go to about having ASperger's. All because I dont have friends at the moment up here, or a gf does not mean I have ASperger's. For example even at work where I know the people I really open up, and with customers on the most part I talk to even though they can upset you alot at Home Depot cause it seems they are always mad.

I don't think it's a good idea to post a girl's picture on a website for strangers to see without her permission. She probably wouldn't like that.

She's probably just a friendly person. Don't get too upset if you ask her out and she says no. But then again, maybe she does like you. My advice is to ask her out and see how it goes from there.

Thats what I plan on doing. I mean just going to the movies or hanging out I dont see why she would say no. Actual dating or relationship I dont know. SHould I expect a kiss on the first date?

I was just thinking the same thing. If she somehow found out (Yes, I know it's unlikely but it is possible) it could ruin any chance you have with her.

I'd generally say you shouldn't expect a kiss on the first date. It is possible that it will happen, but don't expect it or get your hopes up. The new picture you showed me makes her look a lot better. I think the first picture was a bad picture.

Yes. As you sw in the second pic she has great legs, and has a great body. Very good looking.

Most likely it would. Although I very doubt she would read a site like this. Anyways she doesnt even cuss very much and is very well manored.

The Phychologist I went to didnt say if I had it or not. Really did not talk about it much.

Does anyone think this one is cute?

Blues, let me talk straight up to you. This is NOT A freakin' dating site. Go to Match.Com or the ilk.

As a woman, this is what I'd call nothing but stalking and if I was to find out a guy had posted my picture somewhere without my permission, not only would I contact the police for harrassment but also stalking charges. I think you need to really talk to a new psychiatrist honestly and take care of these obsessive issues. It's not healthy. If you want a woman, this is not a way to do it and it takes more maturity and less wanting a woman for physical appearance and more for her as a person.

Uh her pic is posted on a public news site. Shes a bit old for me though.

And that public site has likely her permission to put her picture on it, you don't.

Shes not even at that station anymore.

I think you are completely missing the point I was making. They likely had her permission in the first place even if she's no longer at the station to put her picture up, you do not.