PlicketyCat wrote:
The jewelry & make-up topics got me thinking about other weird "obsessions" (NT) women seem to have... and SHOES immediately came to mind.
I mean, really, what is the deal?! First, most of the shoes these women covet look and feel like medieval torture devices. Second, you could run a small country with the money they cost. Third, why do you need so many, why hoard them? Fourth, there are better uses for available storage space!
I only have a few of pairs of shoes. They're all comfortable and function-specific. Cheap Keds for everyday. Sport shoes for walking and exercising. Work boots for summer and winter. And one pair of classic dress boots with a low heel for the rare occasions I'm forced to dress up. If I'm not going outside, I'm barefoot or in socks (if it's cold).
It does go beyond shoes in my case, my wardrobe is entirely functional and comfortable as well. I can't help wondering if this is because of my AS? Not only can I not get jazzed about shoes (or clothes) but I can't even understand why anyone would. It makes it very difficult to have conversations or go shopping with other women (esp. my mother who keeps trying to turn me into a girl!).
they remind me of sex and when I walk in them I like the way I walk. They make me taller and since I am 5'3 and my husband is 6'4 that helps.
But I only buy heels 4 inches and up.
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ADHD-diagnosed
Asperger's Syndrome-diagnosed