26 Sep 2020, 8:57 pm
Lunella wrote:
quite an extreme wrote:
It's hard to guess the age of some women either because it's also a question of style and makeup. My ex was asked for ID up to the age of 40. Don't give to much on it and be glad that you are looking that way. 
Thought you being quite girly. What's your very own definition of a real girl?
Thought you being quite girly. What's your very own definition of a real girl?
I was referencing Pinocchio
I think people take you more seriously when you dress posh and modest. Hair up, smart dress, blazer, good handbag and smart shoes. Meanwhile I normally go about in a pink hoodie that says jog on or some others that have various insults on them with pink nike trainers and leggings.
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Lunella wrote:
^ It is definitely a problem when you're getting ID'd for a f*****g tin opener or a pair of scissors at the age of 30. 
Even my husband is like saying I pass for 18-20 if I wear younger looking clothes and he is like actually worried sometimes cause he's way older than me. It's a curse. I am a perpetual child.
Maybe one day I can like.. grow up into a real girl!
Even my husband is like saying I pass for 18-20 if I wear younger looking clothes and he is like actually worried sometimes cause he's way older than me. It's a curse. I am a perpetual child.
Maybe one day I can like.. grow up into a real girl!
How much older than you?
Maybe Pepe has a chance after all.
Ahh he's 40, we're somehow nearly exactly 10 years apart. I wouldn't date a dude my own age though, no ta.
Although it's weird cause he looks 20 years younger so we like go together pretty well, I don't understand how that worked out but it did!
I can be 40 if you want me to be.
I actually thought your husband was around 50, since you said he was a lot older than you.
A 10 year age gap is *NOT* "a lot older".
26 Sep 2020, 9:05 pm
Lunella wrote:
Pepe wrote:
Sadly I genuinely hate looking this young it's embarrassing as f**k at a certain age, cause then you get all these bloody questions from people in workplaces on why and then people don't take you seriously at all, which is pretty s**t when you're supposed to be in a technical role. Maximum ageist snideness.
OK,
This is where I get technical.
I can see why looking young in a work situation is undesirable,
But not in a social context.
It is also flattering to your husband to have such a spunky young "chickie babe".
Lunella wrote:
Pepe wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
How much older than you?
Maybe Pepe has a chance after all.
Thank you, my friend,
Your cheque is in the mail.
Shhhh!
Kitten_caboodle will get jealous.
26 Sep 2020, 9:09 pm
26 Sep 2020, 9:15 pm
Pepe wrote:
Lunella wrote:
Pepe wrote:
Sadly I genuinely hate looking this young it's embarrassing as f**k at a certain age, cause then you get all these bloody questions from people in workplaces on why and then people don't take you seriously at all, which is pretty s**t when you're supposed to be in a technical role. Maximum ageist snideness.
OK,
This is where I get technical.
I can see why looking young in a work situation is undesirable,
But not in a social context.
It is also flattering to your husband to have such a spunky young "chickie babe".
Yeah but even then you get odd stares in restaurants like why these kids in here
I think the worst situation I was in was when a young lad in a bar started flirting with me - I was SO mortified, he was like 19.
I just had to like say sorry I have a partner in a nice way so he didn't feel bad or something lol.
Pepe wrote:
Lunella wrote:
Pepe wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
How much older than you?
Maybe Pepe has a chance after all.
Thank you, my friend,
Your cheque is in the mail.
Shhhh!
Kitten_caboodle will get jealous.
26 Sep 2020, 9:59 pm
Pepe wrote:
27 Sep 2020, 12:26 am
cyberdad wrote:
Pepe wrote:
"Get your paws off me, you damn stinking NT". <planet of the apes reference>
I've had this pet project in mind for some time.
Having "classes" to help people become more familiar in social situations.
Oil the mind's "cogs", sort of thing.
It could be a casual, rather than a more formal approach.
I haven't decided if it is better suited in the adult forums or here.
My concern is that things may get out of control if it is created in the adult section.
What do you think?
27 Sep 2020, 12:33 am
27 Sep 2020, 12:44 am
27 Sep 2020, 7:01 am
Lunella wrote:
I think people take you more seriously when you dress posh and modest. Hair up, smart dress, blazer, good handbag and smart shoes. Meanwhile I normally go about in a pink hoodie that says jog on or some others that have various insults on them with pink nike trainers and leggings.
OK - lets talk a bit in a honest way about dressing of very attractive girls that most of the men want to be with.
Once you dress very girly the it makes the guys think that you are looking for a partner and depending on your look quite many will try to hit on you otherwise it's seems more like you are in a relationship and don't want to attract guys. You are taken a bit more seriously by men then and they are less up to approach you. That's nearly all about that.
Girls compete with their looks towards the guys. Dress very hot and they may dislike you because of that. On the other hand they like to be with the most attractive girls because they attract the hottest boys who may be after them as well if the most attractive one chooses another boy. For this the hierarchy of the girls is a lot related to attractivity. What often is ignored is that female attractivity is related to the mood and behaviour as well.
For this men are less after you and other women think the have less to competite with you if you are dressing posh and modest. But whether you are taken seriously depends a lot more on your brightness, knowledge and your dominance if it comes to forcing the things going the right ways. If you are very attractive then many guys are supportive to you because they hope that you may like them. But not even few wont see you being more than just sexual attractive. Because male and female hierarchies work differently many people dislike mixed gender hierarchies and women aren't taken the same seriously then men but may get even more support by men.
Women need to be good at organizing and specifying the goals for the team for becomming accepted on top despite of their look and what their job is. For this your social skills count more then your technical ones if it comes to the hierarchies in companies.
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