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Goldilocks
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10 Jan 2018, 3:11 am

MissChess wrote:
women feel hunted, cynical, and valued only as life support for a vagina. We generally don't like it.

Note, Mark, I'm not saying this is you. I can only speak from my experience as a woman who used to do a lot of dating in her misspent youth. Dating is risky and often ends badly for autistic women, but it seems it's at least easier for us to engage in some dating than it is for many autistic men.



I relate to this a lot. Even when I tried to let my barriers down things ended badly (now I refuse to date anyone). Autistic women are more likely to be sexually abused and manipulated so most are just generally weary of men. Being slightly alt/goth doesn't help either. Things are hard for us too you know.

I suggest trying to make friends with different women first. You'll learn more about us, the reasons behind our behaviours and how to communicate with us.

If you just wanna get laid without learning the social aspects, get a sex worker. You wouldn't be the first.


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10 Jan 2018, 3:19 am

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To be fair, the "f**k off" look women give a lot of men is often just their resting facial expression and has nothing to do with who/what we're looking at.


If I was a woman; on average 10% smaller with 30% less upper body strength than a man, with a 1 in 4 chance of being beaten and a 1 in 6 chance of being raped in my lifetime, I'd probably not be all sunshine and smiles to men I don't know.
If men don't like "the f**k off look", it's up to them to change the dynamic; not women.


Lol exactly.


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10 Jan 2018, 10:28 am

Goldilocks wrote:
Piobaire wrote:
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To be fair, the "f**k off" look women give a lot of men is often just their resting facial expression and has nothing to do with who/what we're looking at.


If I was a woman; on average 10% smaller with 30% less upper body strength than a man, with a 1 in 4 chance of being beaten and a 1 in 6 chance of being raped in my lifetime, I'd probably not be all sunshine and smiles to men I don't know.
If men don't like "the f**k off look", it's up to them to change the dynamic; not women.


Lol exactly.


You're praising someone who had to scrape the bottom of the barrel (Craigslist) to find a girlfriend while my first and so far only girlfriend actually approached me first.



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10 Jan 2018, 10:32 am

Marknis wrote:
Goldilocks wrote:
Piobaire wrote:
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To be fair, the "f**k off" look women give a lot of men is often just their resting facial expression and has nothing to do with who/what we're looking at.


If I was a woman; on average 10% smaller with 30% less upper body strength than a man, with a 1 in 4 chance of being beaten and a 1 in 6 chance of being raped in my lifetime, I'd probably not be all sunshine and smiles to men I don't know.
If men don't like "the f**k off look", it's up to them to change the dynamic; not women.


Lol exactly.


You're praising someone who had to scrape the bottom of the barrel (Craigslist) to find a girlfriend while my first and so far only girlfriend actually approached me first.


Even if that's true then so what? He has a good point.



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10 Jan 2018, 10:35 am

Fireblossom wrote:
Marknis wrote:
Goldilocks wrote:
Piobaire wrote:
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To be fair, the "f**k off" look women give a lot of men is often just their resting facial expression and has nothing to do with who/what we're looking at.


If I was a woman; on average 10% smaller with 30% less upper body strength than a man, with a 1 in 4 chance of being beaten and a 1 in 6 chance of being raped in my lifetime, I'd probably not be all sunshine and smiles to men I don't know.
If men don't like "the f**k off look", it's up to them to change the dynamic; not women.


Lol exactly.


You're praising someone who had to scrape the bottom of the barrel (Craigslist) to find a girlfriend while my first and so far only girlfriend actually approached me first.


Even if that's true then so what? He has a good point.


You didn't see his other posts to me. He claimed I have "white privelege" and don't really suffer like a cut and paste SJW robot. Oddly, I don't see him giving up any of his "priveleges". :roll:



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10 Jan 2018, 12:31 pm

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