Trashy, slu*ty females

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very good distinction. ^
I would bed down with both of them, although Paris would probably be a little too skinny for my liking.
(And I would of course prefer NIcole alive.)

I understand the OP's feelings, as I am a nostalgic myself.

I like people that are not afraid of their sexuality, but I appreciate a bit of style and subtlety. Sometimes I meet people who flaunt their promiscuity in your face like they invented it - I find this naivete amusing...

Anna Nicole was kinda into girls.

You guys really find Anna Nicole attractive? Still trying to wrap my head around that one. She was like nails down a chalkboard for me.

her fake boobs do (did ) nothing for me. (I presume they are still fine in spite of the normal wear and tear of the underground realm. and its various insects and little munchy bugs.)

Anna-Nicole was archetypal slut-trash. SHe parodies herself in much the same way Marilyn did. f***able. but certainly not my first choice. good for a night and nothing more. I think her antics would have worn a bit thin with me...within a few seconds. But in the bedroom, who is talking? Certainly not this aspie, unless it is dirty.
I cannot mulit-task. One thing at a time.

I've always thought of myself as androgynous. I like my clothes to fit and I like them to be a certain way. I'm very picky about food and clothes. I loathe being human. And as long as I'm stuck with being human...it's like a fish out of water.

The way people move, their make-up and attire, the way they conduct themselves, there's a certain style or image they are projecting. If they want to be a sex object....well....I don't have any opinion on that. There was a time when I looked and behaved very slu*ty. Yet the only time I considered myself a sex object/sex slave was when I was married.

Being forced to have sex when you don't want it--is far worse than being a slut and deciding for yourself. That's just my opinion.

I think I know what you mean. I've never felt truly comfortable being attractive to males, but is seems like there are some women who not only WELCOME it but THRIVE on it!! I've even tried "faking it" imitating such women (by dressing provocatively or something similar) but always end up thinking "what the #$%$ did I just do?"

I purposely dress down to not attract attention and when I do attract attention I want to crawl under a rock.

How is it that some women can just relentlessly flaunt it, flaunt it, flaunt it???

It is (as several people here have said) about choice.

I demand the right to wear a short skirt or slut red lippy if and when I want to. But I don't want anyone turning round and claiming I'm 'not allowed' to do slu*ty because I'm the wrong side of thirty and the wrong side of a size 12. And I also demand the right to have whatever I say taken damn seriously when I'm bare-faced in ripped jeans. (Notably, some men of the older generation still disregard me as a slut in that context simply vecause I'm tattooed. Tch.)

Too often the girliness is compulsory, the prettiness (and slenderness, and youth, or at least the appearance of it) is compulsory - or if it's not compulsory, there's immense pressure to conform to it. When that happens, we're really losing sight of the fact that this was supposed to be about freedom. I don't like people claiming that I have the 'freedom' to be all serious and political and still be girly when what that means is that nobody will give a flying fart what I say unless I'm wearing heels and a push-up bra. That's not what it's about!

I most certainly don't wish I lived in the 1940s, because to go by some of the women I know from that era, the choices were even worse: you had to be attractive in a certain very much more limited way, and being 'ladylike' was as compulsory as sluttiness sometimes seems to be now. Some of us don't do ladylike very well. (I can just about barely manage it for family weddings, if I have to.) And alba touches on something else: I was married to a guy who expected to totally control the way I looked and believed there were certain garments that 'married women don't wear'. So I'm not hot on anyone telling people how to look or not to look.

Nor am I about to tell them how to live their sex lives - provided they have the resources and knowledge to make informed choices in that area. I got branded a slut in my teens because I didn't have that knowledge, and it was actually all pretty scary. And I was subjected to sexual coercion in marriage as well. And again, I wonder how many girls are doing the 'slu*ty' thing not because they love sex, but because they're scared not to. One is about empowerment, the other is about powerlessness. Big difference.

Like I said, it's about choice.

here here to the above from thatredhairedgirl.

choice.

also, i find it kind of regrettable when WP turns into a middle class fashion stakes scene - with the implication being there is some kind of bluerint for a definable and appropriate "x" fashion factor that separates the sluts from the non-sluts.

Inclusion for all.

As a woman with AS who has had quite a life ride and few of the benefits of early diagnosis, supportive parenting in adolescence, financial propping, or support through a college degree or degrees,I suspect all human beings just do what they do to get by in life.

I find hieracrchies odious. each to their own.

Well, it's clearly not the popular opinion, but I'd prefer not to see anyone's fleshier parts protruding from any dubiously cut outer garments. It's just not something that pleases my eye, I don't consider it appropriate, and I don't do it myself. And I find it ucky.

From another perspective, the right sort of drapery is far sexier than having everything out and dangling. And I use this to advantage with my husband... but I won't go further into that topic.

Now, that said, I have to say honestly that dressing trashy isn't an option for me anyway, I'm on the plump side these days. There are some who go for that, but let's face it, plumptiousness is hard to dress any way, much less trashy, without looking like a bound, fermenting soft cheese.

I just happen to think that some things are for the public and some are for the people who you select. I don't flash my credit card number to the world, and I don't display the women to it either (breasts, that is... they've really grown beyond being called "girls" in recent years).

But where I actually get irritated is when I see women dressing badly in sleazy clothes. Even though I don't care for suggestive looks walking up and down the malls (I've got kids with me sometimes, for cryin' out loud...) there's times when you see them in their currently fashionable tissue paper rubbish and can't help thinking, "Did they WANT to look like that?" Y'know, when it fits wrong, or just doesn't work for them, or is an unHOLY ugly color... I try to consider individual tastes but it's hard.

Right now I'm getting downright petty about it because I know that I can't just walk into a store and buy something tasteful (I mean that in a couple of ways) because my budget won't let me specialty shop. I favor a retro or even fantasy look I could never pull off, I'm sure... But right now, I can't even buy plain clothes. EVERYTHING is gathered! Everything looks like maternity tops!

So that's what makes ME mad... when fashion, which I usually ignore, becomes so saturated with one trend that everything I find is flimsy, ugly, or just not right for a big lady. And dang it, if I wanted clothes that looked like they came out of Marcia Brady's closet, I'd sew the cruddy things myself! That's all I can find! That and Wal-mart clothes that look like the stuff from my MOM's closet! Ugh! Retirement village chic.

I am actually considering sewing my clothes, it's gotten so butt-ugly out there. I look baggy enough on my own without wearing clown shirts. I ignore fashion, but I have my standards.

I'm gonna say something different now...I love to look trashy sometimes, I like wearing low cut tops, and sometimes I like to cover up. I enjoy the way some women get irritated with me, mainly your homemaker variety like off of desperate houswives, who maybe have nothing better to do than talk about other people( although I don't like generalising lol) . I personally like bright red lipstick, or electric pink lipstick, pink hair, or peroxide blonde hair, I used to be a fetish model too. So I'm not mainstream trashy, but I Suppose trashy all the same. I would like to add that I have only had 3 boyfriends, one of whom I never slept with. Am I a slut just because of the way I'm dressed? Of course not.

I also used worked for many years in a male gay bar where men objectify men in short shorts, so it's not just women. I also have lesbian friends who ogle over naked women dancing around poles in gay bars so it's not just men. How should a woman dress? If I dressed in traditional men's clothes would that offend people? If a man wears a skirt should that offend people? WHat about tribes in africa where women don't wear tops?Are people offended by them? I Don't expect all women or even a small amount of women think the same way I do, but I hope one day people will become more accepting of variety and individualism.

No offense to anyone, but what bothers me is females who enjoy men visibly salivating over their cleavage, or a safe distance away from said cleavage. It's undoubtedly due at least partially to jealousy on my part. After giving it considerable thought as to what I would deem manageable, if I had something worthwhile to expose, it comes out a toss-up. Perhaps if I needed the attention. However, wouldn't it be prudent for the female doing so--to at least have an escort or body guard?