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I think I see the problem. You keep comparing your parents to your vision of what a perfect parent should be like. You see the discrepancy, and you think that therefore the fault lies entirely with them. Of course, it's natural to be oblivious to how our own actions contribute to the behaviours and actions of others. My mother took me to a psychologist to try and get me to see that, and she was absolutely right. You should quit with the analysis, because it's circular and leads nowhere. Your own judgement cannot be trusted in these matters.

yes it can for i possessed excellant juggement, but im not starting an argument over my life

but those in charge are duty bound to provide complety for those they are charged with failure is not an option, and i willl leave it at that

hyperion, you are absolutely right. I hate your browser, also!

(giving your dad a hug after he punches you in the stomache probably won't work
whereas getting away from them as soon as possible may save your life!
When the house is on fire, get out! You can't kiss the flames.)
(I guess that was indirectly for Florescent...sorry.)

Look, whatever, just seriously consider seeing a psychologist.

Damn everyone misinterpets. Damn as not bland. I would not suggest giving hug if life in danger. Why don't you think I don;t leave?, cause I have pschologically no family. My brother says he can't have too many close friends eithe he is nt. I really do think I am too. I need a mom real bad. I need to try harder with her. My eyes are watering writing this. God damn the 2 inside are fighting what the hell its going to be a miserable day. Why do I have to get wrapped up in this s**t. God damn I am losing her. He is coming oh s**t. I better supress him. I appolgize he is coming he will make me act nuts so be on guard.

Oh I get it. My belief they are out to get me maid it seem like the situations were the same. Althoug they are not its the mood and lack of affection cause by it that made me think so. I guess I figured that he might have the same issue wanting love but mood inhibits that. Well it seems like that. My family does not punch me but the situation makes it seem similar. I might have gotten that confused. Yeah its a coping strategy damn pstd.

ill retort nothing justifies what they did to me.
and abuse does not require intent

Hyperion, well said.

Florescent, moods suck.

i got this friend i could stay with tommorow but i am unsure about him

heres my basic delema, dont really envy staying afraid to go somewhere strange

That is a dilemma. It's not good to run from the frying pan into the fire. How well do you know him? Do you have mutual friends and acquaintances that you could ask about his character and lifestyle? Has he ever given you any reason to have doubts about him? Do you get a 'weird' feeling about him? (I have learned to always listen to those feelings!)

My mom left my brothers is moving in after my moody sister leaves. Can you stay with other family. I know I like my brother more than my mom or sister well maybe equal to my mom.

yes i have a friend i can ask, and i got a very good feeling from him
and hes very well off financialy

i have known only a short time but i knew he iss good guy

plus my parents would not take kindly to me just leaving mysteriously
they would try to drag me back somehow

i still know 2+2=4

Good for you. Don't be afraid to make positive changes.

i would probably need help planning it out