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Chronos
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09 Mar 2011, 3:30 am

emlion wrote:

I can't do that to him.
However bad he is, he's done a lot of good for me too.
I'd literally be dead if it wasn't for him.

This is how abusers work emlion, they emotionally indebt you to them so they can get away with their abuse. Do not be fooled. He is not anyone you owe anything to. He has proven himself dangerous and even if you don't press charges, please do file a police report so should he continue to be a problem in the future, they will better understand the context of this problem.

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09 Mar 2011, 6:13 am

Chronos wrote:

emlion wrote:

I can't do that to him.
However bad he is, he's done a lot of good for me too.
I'd literally be dead if it wasn't for him.

Whatever Chris did for you in the past means nothing now. What he has done to you in the present is what's important now. He is not your friend and probably used you in the past.

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09 Mar 2011, 12:48 pm

Yep. He told me he only ever wanted to be my friend because he wanted sex.
Still, now he got what he wanted and i haven't seen him since.
thank god for that.

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09 Mar 2011, 1:55 pm

emlion wrote:

Yep. He told me he only ever wanted to be my friend because he wanted sex.
Still, now he got what he wanted and i haven't seen him since.
thank god for that.

I think he's simply jealous of you. You have a boyfriend, a flat and a job, while he's a homeless loser.

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09 Mar 2011, 2:20 pm

:shrug: who knows, i didn't stay around to ask him.

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09 Mar 2011, 4:20 pm

emlion wrote:

Yep. He told me he only ever wanted to be my friend because he wanted sex.

So he came just took it... ugh, the entitlement.... I didn't think I could hate this guy more than I did already...

Prison's too good for him.

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09 Mar 2011, 4:21 pm

i doubt they'll get him now.
i'm pretty sure he's left the area.

i just don't get why he pretended to be my friend for so long?
did he think i'd one day magically wake up and leave Stefan for him?!

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09 Mar 2011, 4:26 pm

emlion wrote:

i doubt they'll get him now.
i'm pretty sure he's left the area.

Don't worry, he's on file now. If he causes any trouble anywhere else, he'll come up on the system.

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i just don't get why he pretended to be my friend for so long?
did he think i'd one day magically wake up and leave Stefan for him?!

Probably. It's stupid, but some guys do that. I've seen a few people on WP with a similar mindset I (not too many at the moment thankfully. They come and go in waves).

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09 Mar 2011, 4:29 pm

Yeah.

Oh well.
What's done is done now.
I shall not let him break me. ^.^

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09 Mar 2011, 4:33 pm

emlion wrote:

Yeah.

Oh well.
What's done is done now.
I shall not let him break me. ^.^

Damn right!

[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oP5J4W5GQ3w[/youtube]

An army of Emmas.... (wish the song was a bit more cheerful though... Ride of the Valkyries would be better!)

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10 Mar 2011, 8:32 am

i adore that song. :heart:

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16 Mar 2011, 2:19 am

If he's hitting you, you know there are people out there you can talk to.....You can get help.

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23 Mar 2011, 10:43 am

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If he's hitting you, you know there are people out there you can talk to.....You can get help.

i did.
he's arrested.

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23 Mar 2011, 2:21 pm

emlion wrote:

rabbit90 wrote:

If he's hitting you, you know there are people out there you can talk to.....You can get help.

i did.
he's arrested.

For how long? Have you heard anything more about the case from the police?

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23 Mar 2011, 2:22 pm

i haven't asked.
i don't even care anymore.

the sooner he can come and finish me off, the better.
imo.

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