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09 Sep 2024, 1:27 pm

I'm willing to work for kind people. I won't have anything to do with any other kind.



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09 Sep 2024, 1:41 pm

funeralxempire wrote:
babybird wrote:
I think it's its more scarier when people are being kind to me than when they're being mean and that's f****d up


I can relate. I'm used to navigating being mistreated. When people are kind it's like suddenly I'm on unfamiliar ground.



It's a common trauma response, being scared to trust seemingly-friendly people.


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09 Sep 2024, 2:08 pm

I seem to often assume that people will be unkind to me and am surprised when they aren't.



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10 Sep 2024, 4:07 am

auntblabby wrote:
I'm willing to work for kind people. I won't have anything to do with any other kind.

You deserve to only be around kind people. :heart:



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10 Sep 2024, 3:52 pm

The things that mattered yesterday don't seem to matter today


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10 Sep 2024, 5:19 pm

Inappropriate is my middle name



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11 Sep 2024, 3:07 pm

Hi


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11 Sep 2024, 4:32 pm

I seriously wonder sometimes whether all this is some long, annoying and oh so f*****g boring dream


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11 Sep 2024, 4:40 pm

Babybird... You're dreaming...
Time to wake up.

Just wanted to test my pub theory



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11 Sep 2024, 7:04 pm

someone wrote:
Once , I. dreamed that I was a lovely buttefly...and as I went along and slowly approached conciousness,A realization came for a moment .....Perhaps I was ..! the Lovely Butterfly now dreaming , I was now me. :idea:


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12 Sep 2024, 4:05 pm

I don't think I could survive another psychotic episode like the last one

I'm trying to put it to the test by going to places where there's people


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12 Sep 2024, 10:47 pm

^^^ Got any Noise cancelling earbudz.^^^^^...?
helps me in even small crowds


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13 Sep 2024, 10:32 am

Thanks Jakki

It's always happened in the workplace in the past


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13 Sep 2024, 2:59 pm

Noise cancelling headphones do not seem to completely shut off all sound..If you are attentive to persons in front of you ,
you can hear them okay..they seem to just diminish all sounds ..close by people that are not talking loudly enough to fully activate the noise cancelling can be heard okay too. I wear them to movie theatres.Helps alot . If I go to a thestre, it has been a few years now. :|


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14 Sep 2024, 1:24 pm

It's the paranoia that gets me more than the noise but that doesn't mean to say the headphones won't help

I actually wear ear defenders to get to sleep when there's a house party nearby and for my bf's snoring when he stays over


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16 Sep 2024, 4:32 pm

Sometimes, I wish there's a substance for me to become like another person.

Could be alcohol, marijuana, nicotine, certain medications... Even something like coffee -- which doesn't, though. :?

Those... 'Tools'... Are not readily available nor helpful for me.


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