I got invited to Jonathan's apartment!! !
I read the article to which you linked in its entirety, and I don't think that article supports your argument. I won't go into why because I don't want to argue. You may disagree with me, but I think my point of view is reasonable, so I'll disagree with you.
I am scared of penetration though
I heard it hurts the first time!
As for loving Jonathan or Jesse I am not quite there yet but I could eventually develop feelings for one of them once I get to know them better!
Well so far as Jonathan or Jesse are concerned, can we assume that dealing with vaginal penetration will probably have to wait until you have developed feelings?
For the record, it doesn't have to hurt. That's not a reason not to do it. You may have a great many other much bigger reasons for not doing it, at least not for the moment. As to why it needn't hurt, there is a lot of educational material on the web or even YouTube you can consult to learn more.
I read the article to which you linked in its entirety, and I don't think that article supports your argument. I won't go into why because I don't want to argue. You may disagree with me, but I think my point of view is reasonable, so I'll disagree with you.
I am scared of penetration though
I heard it hurts the first time!
As for loving Jonathan or Jesse I am not quite there yet but I could eventually develop feelings for one of them once I get to know them better!
Penetration (first-time or otherwise) doesn’t have to involve a partner. It’s something a person could explore on their own if they wanted to. I’d go that route if I could do things over again. In any case, don’t do it until you really want to. Also, you can say to stop or slowdown if you don’t like something.
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I read the article to which you linked in its entirety, and I don't think that article supports your argument. I won't go into why because I don't want to argue. You may disagree with me, but I think my point of view is reasonable, so I'll disagree with you.
I am scared of penetration though
I heard it hurts the first time!
As for loving Jonathan or Jesse I am not quite there yet but I could eventually develop feelings for one of them once I get to know them better!
Well so far as Jonathan or Jesse are concerned, can we assume that dealing with vaginal penetration will probably have to wait until you have developed feelings?
For the record, it doesn't have to hurt. That's not a reason not to do it. You may have a great many other much bigger reasons for not doing it, at least not for the moment. As to why it needn't hurt, there is a lot of educational material on the web or even YouTube you can consult to learn more.
That is correct
I need to develop feelings first!
The other reason I am hesitant to do penetration of course is fear of pregnancy
However, I feel that by not doing PIV penetration I'm missing out on a BIG part of the sex experience!! !
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Therefore my primary focus right now should be to start dating and if one of them becomes my boyfriend THEN it is time to start thinking about sex!
EDIT: How effective is the "pull-out method" when it comes to penetration?
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EDIT: How effective is the "pull-out method" when it comes to penetration?
For birth control? Not particularly.
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EDIT: How effective is the "pull-out method" when it comes to penetration?
For birth control? Not particularly.
I wouldn't fool with that.
I'll repeat what I said before. If you should ever decide you're definitely going to have penetrative sex with a guy, and your relationship with him is good enough that you can have the discussion, then you should discuss vasectomy. As far as preventing pregnancy is concerned, it's the most effective and least risky approach. Of course, if the guy has some reason to think he'll want to have kids someday, he won't be able to do it.
Having a discussion about a vasectomy in the context of a relationship is okay. Insisting upon one is not.
Condoms are highly effective if they are used properly.
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It depends on the person, their partner, and the overall encounter. Overall, I think only ~50% of women can orgasm from penetration alone. Other sexual activities are enjoyable too.
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Like kissing and touching (foreplay) right?
I like to uh...masturbate and I can give myself orgasms
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Yeah, that sort of stuff. If your partner isn’t interested in doing those sorts of things, you might want to wait until someone else comes along.
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Okay
Once I get serious with Jonathan or Jesse or whatever I will discuss foreplay
I have done it before with my ex Robbie so it's not truly new to me
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That sounds good. There’s no rush. Once you get serious with someone, talking about sex before having it would be a good idea.
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Once I DO start having sex we would probably do lots of foreplay in order to get aroused for the main event
Like pushing him against the wall and making out
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Whatever floats your boat. If you don’t like something, you can tell him to stop and/or change what you’re doing. There’s nothing wrong with doing that whatsoever.
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