quietangel wrote:
This was something I had to be taught (to play) during play therapy with my son. We now "play" 5 minutes a day. It was interesting learning how not to direct play.
I have never been able to "play", as a child or an adult. I don't know how to be spontaneous and just have fun. Never did. Perhaps this is the quality they're referring to in the article. I had a really hard time when my kids were little playing with them. They're both NT, and very close in age, and I would watch in wonder as they spent countless hours in imaginary play, something I certainly never did. At times, though, I felt a bad mom because I didn't know how to join them. Didn't have a clue, knew something was missing but didn't know what it was. (I didn't find out about AS till last year) I don't know if I could even be taught to play. Sigh. I guess it is just me.