Greentea wrote:
Hi desdemona,
That's how it is here too.
But why do you say that you're a little old for this now? This is something I don't understand...people with NLD tend to mostly talk about their problems with studying. While I fit all the NLD traits to a tee, my critical problem is in the social non-verbal area, and at my age it's not irrelevant, on the contrary, it's very accute and doesn't let me live normally... So would you say your main problem is not in the nonverbal cues from society?
Oh gee, no my main problems were social. I have math disabilty (or maybe wasn't taught visually enough), but my problems are all things I see here. It's just that at my great age, I have accepted my disability and live in NM where it I think people are more accepting. My friends, and I do have them now, all accept me for how I am. I don't think any of them are NT.
I don't care much about trying to get a dx at my age. I have a job and so on. So there is no reason that I would need this. If I need some kind of "cover" I just talk about ld or maybe ADD, as I have been dxed as having that as well (though at the time it was called "Minimal Brain Dysfunction" go Google that one for a blast from the past!).
Maybe if I were younger I would worry about what it was called. I did pursue this at one time, but I had sort of snag (a very long story).
I would also say that I have learned stuff that makes my life easier. It took me a LONG time. But over time I have learned things like faking eye contact and so on. I love my obsessions, etc.
--des