getting into a relationship for all the wrong reasons

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aspieguy101
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12 Jun 2009, 3:48 pm

is not worth it. Lets stop pretending otherwise. In the end, the Only person that can make you happy is yourself. You never know what goes on behind closed doors and the grass isn't always greener in the life of people who seem to have it all. Don't let people change you. You are fine as is. Some of you say no one likes me but that's false.


Why?


Cause I like you. All of you.


Have a great day. Don't work too hard.



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12 Jun 2009, 5:34 pm

That's a nice attitude.. but for most people, is it really real? How can you maintain liking yourself without someone who loves you? I know I can't. Maybe you just have to be a way better person than I am to do that.



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12 Jun 2009, 6:06 pm

I don't think ag101 means you shouldn't love anybody or be loved by anybody.
But you shouldn't let desperation and loneliness take over your life.



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12 Jun 2009, 6:31 pm

1234 wrote:
I don't think ag101 means you shouldn't love anybody or be loved by anybody.
But you shouldn't let desperation and loneliness take over your life.


I know he doesn't mean that love isn't good. But for a lot of people, myself included, the "loving yourself first" thing just doesn't happen. Yea, it makes you more vulnerable.. but if you keep waiting to be OK with yourself before getting into a relationship, sometimes you'd be waiting forever.