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22 Jan 2006, 1:52 pm

What is intimacy? The dictionary says "A feeling of being intimate and belonging together" but how do people know when they are being intimate? What is it like to be intimate? How do you know what is intimate?

Please describe times when you were being intimate?

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22 Jan 2006, 1:59 pm

Intimate-Marked by close acquaintance, association, or familiarity. It's a feeling of closeness you have with another person. Someone that you truly have a bond with. :wink:



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22 Jan 2006, 3:22 pm

androidbeing wrote:
What is intimacy?


Watch out for the varied meanings.
It can mean, (along with "love") simply four bare legs in a bed: "getting intimate."

It is from the latin for "inmost" so speaks of the state of closeness, especially where because of that there are no hidden of secrets, no knowledge unknown. No masks.

A very few people I've shared the dark nooks and crannies of my mind with. Usually only for a short while. That's intimate. The core me.

Oddly, going to bed with someone can avoid that sort of intimacy, rather that than drop the masks, and face the things that can't be shown or said.



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22 Jan 2006, 7:03 pm

I often find I want intimacy but not at the same time as others.

I think intimacy is about mutual understanding.



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22 Jan 2006, 8:20 pm

Emotional or physical intimacy? Physical would be sex, emotional would be a deep mental connection. I haven't felt either, so details are beyond me.


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23 Jan 2006, 11:10 am

it's beyond me. sometimes i think i'll never know what it's like to be emotionally intimate.
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24 Jan 2006, 2:05 am

*bites april and android being*

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I'm in an affectionate mood today.


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