The Complete Guide to Asperger's Syndrome, by Tony Attwood
(Excellent overview of AS - very informative.)
The Unwritten Rules of Social Relationships, by Temple Grandin & Sean Barron
(Rules for getting along in NT society, along with explanations of how the rules apply in different situations.)
Mozart and the Whale: An Asperger's Love Story, by Jerry & Mary Newport
(NOT the same as the movie - an in-depth look into an AS/AS relationship.)
Thinking in Pictures, Expanded Edition: My Life with Autism, by Temple Grandin
(Part bio, part reference. Very enjoyable.)
Asperger Syndrome and Long-Term Relationships, by Ashley Stanford
(The best feature of this book, is that the author goes through the DSM-IV criteria for AS & relates each item to how it might affect relationships. The emphasis is on acceptance & understanding. )
Asperger's From the Inside Out, by Michael John Carley
(Well-written bio/reference. Good tips for how & when to disclose.)
Ask and Tell: Self-Advocacy and Disclosure for People on the Autism Spectrum, by Ruth Elaine Hane, et. al.
(Everything you every wanted to know about how & when to disclose your AS.)
Send in the Idiots: Stories from the Other Side of Autism, by Kamran Nazeer
(Insightful look into the adult lives of former students of a school for autistic children.)
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