ColaInflux wrote:
hell, i thought I had the best friends in the word, Untill they never invited me to their own birthdays.
SAME HERE......I kept doing silly things (rapping, singing, and dancing) in high school just to became friends with my peers. They enjoyed the entertainment, started liking me, and encouraged me to do more. As I continued to do so however, no one would bother inviting me out to their house, parties, movies, etc. They also wouldn't bother coming to my house. Worse of all, I could never get a girlfriend or go on a date. I was both infuriated and confused.
I went to school counselors and told them about this problem, and they told to STOP entertaining people who refused to be my friends and offer me anything in return. They claimed that they were using me, and I believed they were right. I decided not to do crazy s**t for people who refused to befriend and be reciprocal with me.