TallyMan wrote:
It depends on where you live. My life would be impossible without a car. Very little public transport. Taxi's very expensive. Town many miles away. Often lots of grocery shopping to carry. Sometimes even building supplies.
These are much the same reasons I need a car. Even when I lived where there was better public transportation, the few times I used it I found it somewhat intolerable -- the proximity of others, feeling vulnerable and out of control. I like to drive myself. Driving is, for me, much more conducive to my love of privacy and solitude. There are a lot of inputs to manage, but they're more mechanistic and tolerable to me than dealing with lots of people in close proximity.
I was nervous learning to drive, and had trouble with it for a few years, but now I'm very comfortable driving, even in heavy traffic, and I'd hate to give it up. I do still have trouble driving in strange places, following maps to learn my way around. But I like to drive.
My biggest obstacle is dealing with keeping a car maintained. Remembering to check fluids and tires and such. Luckily my husband's pretty good at that.