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But nothing happens. I'm a senior in high school and haven't had a gf yet since I've been in high school. My counselor said she's surprised because I'm so handsome. I'm sick of all these jocks getting the girls I like. And it seems that none like me. They are all creeped out by me. They often like the guys who have all the girls all over them. I'm sick of this. I've been trying to ignore this problem for months and managed to do it, but now I'm tired and I cant sleep at night.
Hmm.
My first observation is you are putting way to much emphasis on the idea of getting girls. Do not put women on a pedestal. Think of yourself as the better person, the goods, so to speak. Market yourself accordingly.
I understand your eagerness, and your disappointment in all the girls who say you're handsome but don't want anything to do with you. My best advice to you is to cool it. Live your life. You are only a senior in HS, things will change. I bet if you loosen up a bit, and look at life as one big learning experience, and stop getting distressed, you'll be hooking girls in no time.
Also, being in a relationship isn't all that great in my opinion. It takes a certain type of person. If you really think you're cut out to have a girlfriend go for it; if it's just a matter of hooking up with someone, be careful what you wish for...