billsmithglendale wrote:
sketches wrote:
Even I don't see it. Can somebody point out how an opportunity was missed? Ambivalence, are you still in contact with this person?
Yes -- there was a lot of "Hint HINT" in that conversation from her. When it comes to personal matters like being lonely or wanting company, women don't say things like that to just anyone. She was trying to get him/her (dunno the gender of the OP) to say "Hey, maybe I should come up there and keep you company!"
Waiting 3 days or however long it was killed the opportunity in this case. When lightning strikes, you gotta grab it.
Oh no, then I've been doing it all wrong throughout the years, I and somehow ended up with dates each time. Regardless of missing
one opportunity, I don't think Ambivalence is doing anything wrong. The "general tone" used in the conversation even makes it look like it was about the two keeping their options open, not just a one-time event.
I agree with "women won't say that to just anyone," but being female, I would use the "maybe we can go there sometime" line when I mean
sometime, not right then! After all, it was just threeish days, and now we can confirm that she's not interested anymore?
Even though I still don't see the "hints," thanks a lot for the reply, billsmithglendale. I appreciate the help. Also, good luck, Ambivalence.