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16 Apr 2010, 3:53 pm

^^Yaaaye, greetings everyone,

I am very sorry for bothering you everyone, however I perhaps wondered if I may please ask for some advice. I am very sorry also as I do believe I have posted a happy similar topic approximately one year ago.

I believe I possess a very lovely friend who is a lady (I believe my friend is a very lovely friend for me and for a very long time). Perhaps for this happy topic I shall name my friend Carla. I do believe I possess happy loving feelings for Carla, and have perhaps decided that this is best that I inform her of my feelings. However, I am very worried that this is very selfish and arrogant of me to do so.

Magical Carla and I attend the same university and shall be blessed by examinations in approximately one week and therefore Carla shall be very busy and blessed by study. I perhaps decided that this would be very selfish of me to ask Carla to meet with me during this time so that I may inform her of my feelings.

On the other hand, often when I am blessed by a decision to inform Carla of my feelings (I have been blessed by these feelings for a very long time I believe), I become very possessed and excited and scared and may not stop thinking of this may not sleep.

Thus, may I ask, may this be perhaps best until Carla wishes to meet or shall I perhaps ask for Carla to meet with me before this? Also, I am sorry if this is very horrible of me and perhaps I should not do so.

^^I would be grateful indeed for any advice. I wish not to bother anyone however.


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18 Apr 2010, 6:54 am

I never had problems expressing happy feelings with the person who matters most in my life. He always brought out the best in me, just being with him. I really miss him.



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18 Apr 2010, 6:59 am

Perhaps wait until after exams?



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18 Apr 2010, 7:20 am

Tomasu wrote:
^^Yaaaye, greetings everyone,

there is no post above yours so i do not know why you have two "up arrows" preceding your monologue.

Tomasu wrote:
I believe I possess a very lovely friend who is a lady
"possess?" how much did she cost?

Tomasu wrote:
Perhaps for this happy topic I shall name my friend Carla.

so you decide on a name to call her? is her name not "carla?"
if not then ?????

Tomasu wrote:
I do believe I possess happy loving feelings for Carla, and have perhaps decided that this is best that I inform her of my feelings. However, I am very worried that this is very selfish and arrogant of me to do so.

just say what you think if you have the urge to do so.
it will not rearrange the craters on the moon or change the weather on the earth.



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Magical Carla and I attend the same university and shall be blessed by examinations in approximately one week and therefore Carla shall be very busy and blessed by study. I perhaps decided that this would be very selfish of me to ask Carla to meet with me during this time so that I may inform her of my feelings.

sorry i am out of here.



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18 Apr 2010, 8:51 am

Thank you for your help everyone. I am sorry this was a silly post. I shall also answer your questions, b9, in order.

1) I use ^^ for ^_^, which is a happy and smiley face.
2) I am confused by this question. She did not cost anything - I do not possess her in the sense of possessing an item. For instance, the word "my" does not mean the same in "my friend" as in "my belongings".
3) I named my friend Carla just for this post so that her name may remain a secret, but so that I still had a name to refer to. I chose the name Carla arbitrarily.
4) My reason for posting this was not because I believed that the negative consequences were the ones you listed, of course.

I am sorry, I see now that I was very silly to post this topic. I am sorry to bother you all. Thank you for your replies.


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18 Apr 2010, 8:54 am

I suppose it depends, have you been dating her? Does she give any indication that she feels more than friendship towards you?


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18 Apr 2010, 8:59 am

Tomasu wrote:
Thank you for your help everyone. I am sorry this was a silly post. I shall also answer your questions, b9, in order.

1) I use ^^ for ^_^, which is a happy and smiley face.
2) I am confused by this question. She did not cost anything - I do not possess her in the sense of possessing an item. For instance, the word "my" does not mean the same in "my friend" as in "my belongings".
3) I named my friend Carla just for this post so that her name may remain a secret, but so that I still had a name to refer to. I chose the name Carla arbitrarily.
4) My reason for posting this was not because I believed that the negative consequences were the ones you listed, of course.

I am sorry, I see now that I was very silly to post this topic. I am sorry to bother you all. Thank you for your replies.


no it was not silly for you to post what you posted.
i am very sorry and i feel something akin to guilt because i was not pleasant.

please just take what i write with a grain of salt? (unless you have high blood pressure)
i am sorry i have other personality problems that make things difficult for who i talk to and they are not your problem ok?



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18 Apr 2010, 9:02 am

spooky13 wrote:
I suppose it depends, have you been dating her? Does she give any indication that she feels more than friendship towards you?


I do not believe we have had dates. We often visit places with one another, although I am not certain if this is classed as dating. We have been friends for approximately five years I believe. I do not believe I am aware of any such indications. Thank you for your reply spooky13.


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18 Apr 2010, 9:07 am

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Tomasu wrote:
Thank you for your help everyone. I am sorry this was a silly post. I shall also answer your questions, b9, in order.

1) I use ^^ for ^_^, which is a happy and smiley face.
2) I am confused by this question. She did not cost anything - I do not possess her in the sense of possessing an item. For instance, the word "my" does not mean the same in "my friend" as in "my belongings".
3) I named my friend Carla just for this post so that her name may remain a secret, but so that I still had a name to refer to. I chose the name Carla arbitrarily.
4) My reason for posting this was not because I believed that the negative consequences were the ones you listed, of course.

I am sorry, I see now that I was very silly to post this topic. I am sorry to bother you all. Thank you for your replies.


no it was not silly for you to post what you posted.
i am very sorry and i feel something akin to guilt because i was not pleasant.

please just take what i write with a grain of salt? (unless you have high blood pressure)
i am sorry i have other personality problems that make things difficult for who i talk to and they are not your problem ok?


Oh dear, you need not feel guilty b9. I am happy you replied with your enquiries so that I could clarify my post and I do believe that you were pleasant. ^^I believe I also enjoyed your joke concerning salt and high blood pressure (sorry if this is not a joke and I have misunderstood this however).

EDIT: Also, I apologise very much for my unclear post. I worry often very much that I am being horrible when I type and often attempt to make this so that this is not horrible. However,I believe my typing may then often be difficult for humans to understand.


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18 Apr 2010, 9:30 am

Tomasu wrote:
b9 wrote:
Tomasu wrote:
Thank you for your help everyone. I am sorry this was a silly post. I shall also answer your questions, b9, in order.

1) I use ^^ for ^_^, which is a happy and smiley face.
2) I am confused by this question. She did not cost anything - I do not possess her in the sense of possessing an item. For instance, the word "my" does not mean the same in "my friend" as in "my belongings".
3) I named my friend Carla just for this post so that her name may remain a secret, but so that I still had a name to refer to. I chose the name Carla arbitrarily.
4) My reason for posting this was not because I believed that the negative consequences were the ones you listed, of course.

I am sorry, I see now that I was very silly to post this topic. I am sorry to bother you all. Thank you for your replies.


no it was not silly for you to post what you posted.
i am very sorry and i feel something akin to guilt because i was not pleasant.

please just take what i write with a grain of salt? (unless you have high blood pressure)
i am sorry i have other personality problems that make things difficult for who i talk to and they are not your problem ok?


Oh dear, you need not feel guilty b9. I am happy you replied with your enquiries so that I could clarify my post and I do believe that you were pleasant. ^^I believe I also enjoyed your joke concerning salt and high blood pressure (sorry if this is not a joke and I have misunderstood this however).

EDIT: Also, I apologise very much for my unclear post. I worry often very much that I am being horrible when I type and often attempt to make this so that this is not horrible. However,I believe my typing may then often be difficult for humans to understand.


please disregard what i said if it makes you not able to land on your chosen runway,
i have no right to interfere with you and you make me feel very dumb and inconsiderate by reacting in a self conscious way.
forget what i said ok?



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18 Apr 2010, 10:17 am

b9 wrote:
please disregard what i said if it makes you not able to land on your chosen runway,
i have no right to interfere with you and you make me feel very dumb and inconsiderate by reacting in a self conscious way.
forget what i said ok?


^^Of course b9. Although I do not believe that you said anything bad.


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