Robdemanc wrote:
I have had a few incidents in my life where I think people were manipulating me for their amusement. It is horrible. Once I was bullied at work by two superiers and I didn't even know it was going on for about 6 months. A colleague (who I trusted) told me it was going on because she had been observing it. I remember being really surprised that adults could behave like kids in the playground. And I got to thinking that on the whole, even though people grow up, we never really leave the playground. I lost a lot of trust in work colleagues from that point on and I think it has caused me problems in subsequent jobs, especially with my managers.
I had that happen at a job. I saw someone making a mistake and tried to point it out but he kept telling me to leave him alone. When the mistake became evident he yelled at me for not telling him. When I tried to point out that I had tried he called me a liar. I was so mad I had to go to the bathroom to cool off. When I came back I saw him and the manager with their heads together giggling.