recent argument... repeating outcome...

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As since you dont know me much. i am an intelagent (xcept for spelling) 17 year old that just got diagnosed with aspergers 1 year ago. b4 this, i was:
bi polor
ADHD
ETC ETC

well, that should cover that...

well i had an argument with my parents about the setting up of a gid that i was given. the gift? a new desk and chair for my room. and multi computers.
usually when i get something new. and it requires setting up, i will argue untill i get it through to my parents that i have no patience for "waiting untill the right time" to get it done. i suppose most on here could relate to a degree. well i did just that. i argued my own way of arguing, which i can plainly describe as this.
normal voice tone
subtle manipulation mixed with large words
and above all, not getting a wee bit emotional. which shows weakness.

so i did this. my parents got mad, as usual. but i lost the argument.
i think so far. they thretoned to take it away and return it.
PSHHHA, yeah right. they spent over 600 bucks on this stuff.... i wouldnt return it after going through all that trouble. the funny thing. the whole argument was over the fact that i wanted to set it up, which changed theit plans of doing a whole room makeover, which was stupid IMHO.

damn, i lost my train of thought....

Wow!

You are a rather interesting person!

yes i am LOL
yeah, not being rased with one diagnosis does it to u.
also haveing parents that fold easy HAHAHAHA

i actually think my dad folded and is actually building it in the garage??? i will update on this later... i just hear banging... could be building, or, i ASPLOADED his brain and he is repeatedly banging his head on the wall

Of course!

It's apparent you have an ego that superseads your intelligence aswell. Your 17 so you should know by know that the world isn't fair. You can't always have thing your way. I understand your fustration with wanting to get something done however in this case you were acting like a child. Getting your parents to fold is not something you should be proud of. It will only create further tensiosn down the road. If it was me I'd feel bad about getting my parents to fold. Perhaps instead of sitting here typing about it you should go out into the garage and help your dad build it. They spent $600 on you and you acted like a jerk about it. I understand that you felt it was illogical to hold off buidling the desk however you should've just done what your parents said. It also sounds to me like you are using your diagnosis as an excuse to start an argument, then using your intelligence to try and make your parents feel stupid in the argument. If you keep this up your going to turn into a major a**hole someday. I never had the best relationship with my parents either but I respect them for trying to do the best (in their eyes) to raise me. You however seem to have no respect at all. Take a good hard look at yourself. Perhaps you even owe an apology.

P.S. I use to be like you, so I understand a lot of your fustration. However I grew up once I realized I was acting like a little kid, and so should you. The world's not fair for anyone, and doesn't always seem logical. You've just got to take what it gives you, and it sounds like you've actually had a fairly smooth ride compared to a lot of people.