Ferdinand wrote:
I have really weird interests, so talking about them is a big no-no.
I once told a girl why dogs ate their vomit. She was, to say the least, not impressed.
one time, thinking my class was actually interested( though they were actually just playing on my opening myself up), I started talking all about props used in Ghostbusters, and mentioned all the different franchises there were. I thought it went really well....until my friend told me later that night I'd made a complete ass of myself.
If there's one thing I've learned...no matter how suave we think we come off...we don't.
Basically, if you ever saw that episode of Family Guy where Peter and Lois started doing this musical duet while getting hammered on pot, that's basically what we're like to most people: no matter how suave we think we're coming off in social interaction, that's basically how well we do.
It's one of the reasons I use self-deprecating humor when I talk to people; and not in a "bashing myself" type of way, but more of a "yeah, I know; I'm aware, this is coming off horribly" type of way.