Im a aspie guy who wants to talk to aspie girls

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03 Aug 2010, 6:50 pm

Hi I'm Kyle and I'm a 17 Year Old Male with aspergers who has dark blonde hair and greenish blue eyes and I'm 6 foot 7 aka 198 cm. So I'm interested in talking to aspie girls because I've never met one and have never have known one before. So aspie girls what are you like and how tall are you how old are you and what is your hair and eye color and have you been in a relationship and have you been kissed before and are you virgin? I'm a virgin. And I've never been in a relationship before so I've never had a girlfriend and I've not had a my first kiss yet.

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03 Aug 2010, 6:58 pm

Woah.

Your gender role is not to have girls come onto you, but you come onto girls. Maybe you shouldn't be open like this.

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03 Aug 2010, 7:00 pm

This is kind of creepy. If you're looking for a relationship just say so, saying you want to talk to them and then asking those type of questions is creepy.

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03 Aug 2010, 7:01 pm

buryuntime wrote:

This is kind of creepy. If you're looking for a relationship just say so, saying you want to talk to them and then asking those type of questions is creepy.

I agree, but I know he is not intentionally trying to be creep nor is he a creep.

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03 Aug 2010, 7:09 pm

Hi again BigDoubleK,

It's not a good idea to ask a woman direct physical questions, or questions about past relationships (known or hypothetical) - each relationship is its own 'clean slate'. If she wants to tell you details of others, she will on her own and in her own time. If you don't give her that space to herself, she'll feel like you're interrogating her and will run a mile

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03 Aug 2010, 7:10 pm

Ferdinand wrote:

buryuntime wrote:

This is kind of creepy. If you're looking for a relationship just say so, saying you want to talk to them and then asking those type of questions is creepy.

I agree, but I know he is not intentionally trying to be creep nor is he a creep.

If someone is coming off as creepy and doesn't mean to I think it is good to let them know.

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03 Aug 2010, 7:12 pm

buryuntime wrote:

Ferdinand wrote:

buryuntime wrote:

This is kind of creepy. If you're looking for a relationship just say so, saying you want to talk to them and then asking those type of questions is creepy.

I agree, but I know he is not intentionally trying to be creep nor is he a creep.

If someone is coming off as creepy and doesn't mean to I think it is good to let them know.

Yup, I agree. I'm just letting everyone know that we ain't attacking his character.

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03 Aug 2010, 7:14 pm

Ferdinand wrote:

buryuntime wrote:

Ferdinand wrote:

buryuntime wrote:

This is kind of creepy. If you're looking for a relationship just say so, saying you want to talk to them and then asking those type of questions is creepy.

I agree, but I know he is not intentionally trying to be creep nor is he a creep.

If someone is coming off as creepy and doesn't mean to I think it is good to let them know.

Yup, I agree. I'm just letting everyone know that we ain't attacking his character.

This raises the question, do people actually ever try to be creepy though?

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03 Aug 2010, 7:16 pm

buryuntime wrote:

This raises the question, do people actually ever try to be creepy though?

I think his questions ain't predatory. He's innocently asking 'em.

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03 Aug 2010, 7:19 pm

I don't see how it's creepy at all. He's just asking perfectly reasonable questions.

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03 Aug 2010, 7:29 pm

Hi Kyle! Ah, the joys of being a teenage male who just happens to be Aspie...

Your forthrightness could be construed as refreshing honesty, to me at least, but I can also see how the "creepy" factor could come in to play.

Raging hormones notwithstanding, may I suggest you dial down your honesty level? It doesn't make you a liar, just showing a bit more tact and maturity than a lot of 17 year old guys have.

I wish you luck in finding a suitable girlfriend!

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03 Aug 2010, 7:55 pm

buryuntime wrote:

Ferdinand wrote:

buryuntime wrote:

Ferdinand wrote:

buryuntime wrote:

This is kind of creepy. If you're looking for a relationship just say so, saying you want to talk to them and then asking those type of questions is creepy.

I agree, but I know he is not intentionally trying to be creep nor is he a creep.

If someone is coming off as creepy and doesn't mean to I think it is good to let them know.

Yup, I agree. I'm just letting everyone know that we ain't attacking his character.

This raises the question, do people actually ever try to be creepy though?

Yeah they do.

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03 Aug 2010, 9:35 pm

I'm not trying to be creepy at all and I did not know I was coming off as creepy. I'm sorry I did not know, and I was just curious about aspie girls that's all

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04 Aug 2010, 2:34 am

BigDoubleK wrote:

It might be better to ask the girls more open ended questions that will give them a chance to talk more about themselves instead of specific questions like "what is your eye color" that they can answer in one word. Girls generally like to talk about themselves, even a lot of the aspie girls.

I'm 6 foot 7 myself and if I remember right, that actually converts to 201 cm. You might be selling yourself a little short.

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